Anonymous wrote:decide whether your goal is a place that is good for preK or good through the testing grades and into middle and high school. Often, a nurturing place for a 4 year old is not the right spot for a 14 year old.
And sometimes your child will wind up having issues or talents you never imagined when they were 1-2 years old -- learning disabilities, musical prodigy, math genius or whatever. It's awfully hard to select a path when they are 2-3 years old and be confident it will work through high school.
Stay flexible.