It is not because your are Latin.

It is most likely because you appear unapproachable. E.g. not smiling, body turned away, closed body position, avoid eye contact.

A secondary reason could be if you're wearing clothes with relatively little form.

Whether your makeup and hair is done up is not going to matter if you look like Eva Longoria.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do you dress? Stylish or dowdy?

Today I am wearing a black jersey dress from Soma, black ballet flats, no makeup and my hair is undone.

And what are you doing today? Are you out and about or are sitting at home? Does the dress cinch at the waist or is it loose? If you're out in public why not take 5 minutes in the morning to slap on some eyeliner, shadow and mascara?

Young guy here. We can actually try this out. Could chat and meet up somewhere and can see how it goes

Anonymous wrote:You must be doing something that gives the impression you are unapproachable.

Make more eye contact. Smile. Be inviting.

+1

You appear unapproachable, probably due to a combination of body language and uninviting facial expressions.

When you are in settings where you are open to being approached (e.g., a party, a bar, etc.), have open body language, be engaging, make eye contract, smile, and laugh. Don't cross your arms, don't hide in a large group of women, don't be frowning, and don't come across as standoff'ish.

Don't worry, tons of men in the DC/Nova area love Latina women.

Anonymous wrote:How do you dress? Stylish or dowdy?

Today I am wearing a black jersey dress from Soma, black ballet flats, no makeup and my hair is undone.

How do you dress? Stylish or dowdy?

Anonymous wrote:This is OP. Not sure if this helps but I live in McLean and work in NW DC. Most people around me are white. I wonder if it is because they are not attracted to Latinas?

I don't think that is it. I think it's your body language. When you go out, give the perception you are open to advances. Sit at the bar with a a couple open seats. At Starbucks at the long counter. Smile at men, they will approach.

Anonymous wrote:This is OP. Not sure if this helps but I live in McLean and work in NW DC. Most people around me are white. I wonder if it is because they are not attracted to Latinas?

Oh, okay, I see the problem now!

People don't like to hit on trolls.

Anonymous wrote:Op what is your favorite color?

Pink! Yellow! Blue! Purple!

This is OP. Not sure if this helps but I live in McLean and work in NW DC. Most people around me are white. I wonder if it is because they are not attracted to Latinas?

Op what is your favorite color?

You must be doing something that gives the impression you are unapproachable.

Make more eye contact. Smile. Be inviting.

Resting bitchy face?

Getting hit on usually has more to do with how men perceive your personality/whether they think you will be receptive.

I am a 30 year old Latin woman who supposedly looks like Eva Longoria.

I do not turn heads and no one flirts with me.

What is going on?

P.S. I am not fat.