Op, so sorry, this must be terrible for you

First, do check with an attorney, you have to do this for yourself. Second, he is very young and should you decide to step away, do it gradually so as not to stress him too much. Don't spend time with your ex and his father, this will kill you emotionally. You sound like a great, upstanding guy and I promise you, this will get better, it will. Someone with your kind heart will always win in the end. Good luck
