Anonymous wrote:OP here. Some great ideas, thanks! Baby is too young to sit directly in the stroller so is in a car seat in the stroller. some restaurants in this area have stairs leading in, so carrying the stroller plus car seat up and/or down and set of stairs is a pain I didn't want to get into, especially since I was meeting people for brunch, so likely entering the restaurant by myself. Also, while I usually baby wear on walks and short outings, I don't prefer to wear the baby if I'm going out to brunch since I have to wear him for hours and using the restroom gets tricky. He's 4 months old and not able to sit up yet.
I wore DD to restaurants at that age, but yeah it gets tiring. I also definitely used the bathroom while baby wearing. They should be tight against you and up high on your chest anyways, so shouldn't really get in the way. Anyways, it's getting hot enough that a stroller is probably more comfortable.