Also, for all you "no" posters, how would you rate your level of desire for your husband?

No. No desire to have sex with anyone else.

It's not an either or. I love my husband and enjoy having sex with him. Would I love a roll in the hay with some random hottie? Hell yes.

Yes and no. Yes because my husband has gained a ton of weight, doesn't like to excercise, and thus is limited in what he can do and I have to be careful that he doesn't put too much weight on me. And, honestly, the belly is a turn off. So I do daydream about other, fit men. I think that's probably not that odd, though maybe I'm wrong. I'm married but I'm not blind - I just wouldn't act on anything ever.

No because I love my husband and he is quite skilled.

I don't know. Desire is in the toilet, but after seeing all those young muscles bodies on the Mall yesterday.....hmmm.

Different pp, little desire for sex at all, so no. If my dh and I had sex once a month I would truly enjoy it, but he needs sex more often which makes it more of a chore for me at this point. Another guy would make it even more unenjoyable!

No humpty, I wouldn't.

Can all you "yes" posters explain why?

Anonymous wrote:No desire.

No desire for sex at all?

No desire.

Yes.

no

no

Yes. Because I wouldn't have to live with him and deal with all his baggage. Plus, I've been having sex with my husband for 24 years. Enough already!

The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?