Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He is NOT trying to tell you he is over stimulated. He is not a kid with ADHD
He is showing dominance. Licking and nibbling (small bites) establish his Alfa status.
Gently grab the scruff of his neck, very gently shake once and say "no". You are re-establishing that you are the mother cat or the alpha.
Omg what kind of beast from hell are you? OP do not do that to the poor cat.
Always be kind to the cat and you will have a great long term relationship.
There is a big difference between gentle biting and hard biting.
Hard biting is from being overstimulated (did you touch his belly or over pet him until his eyes bugged out wildly and he started biting?).
Okay with him more and don't overstimulate him.
Gentle little bites means he loves you a lot! It does not mean he's being dominant over you it means he worships you basically.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My 10 month old male cat, who is not affectionate to begin with, has started biting. He will lick me, then chomp. And not delicately. He licks my nose, then bites down. Licks my hand, then full-on attacks. It's unexpected, although I am beginning to fully expect it as of a few days ago. Do cats do this stuff or is he trying to tell me something? It's annoying AS F*%K. I enjoy him. I can live without cuddles and affection, but I draw the line at being attacked.
Male cats especially ones that are neutered do this. Some call it love bites.
If he's growling, got his ears down or is kicking at you he is attacking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He is NOT trying to tell you he is over stimulated. He is not a kid with ADHD
He is showing dominance. Licking and nibbling (small bites) establish his Alfa status.
Gently grab the scruff of his neck, very gently shake once and say "no". You are re-establishing that you are the mother cat or the alpha.
Omg what kind of beast from hell are you? OP do not do that to the poor cat.
Always be kind to the cat and you will have a great long term relationship.
There is a big difference between gentle biting and hard biting.
Hard biting is from being overstimulated (did you touch his belly or over pet him until his eyes bugged out wildly and he started biting?).
PLAY with him more and don't overstimulate him.
Gentle little bites means he loves you a lot! It does not mean he's being dominant over you it means he worships you basically.
Anonymous wrote:He is NOT trying to tell you he is over stimulated. He is not a kid with ADHD
He is showing dominance. Licking and nibbling (small bites) establish his Alfa status.
Gently grab the scruff of his neck, very gently shake once and say "no". You are re-establishing that you are the mother cat or the alpha.
Anonymous wrote:My 10 month old male cat, who is not affectionate to begin with, has started biting. He will lick me, then chomp. And not delicately. He licks my nose, then bites down. Licks my hand, then full-on attacks. It's unexpected, although I am beginning to fully expect it as of a few days ago. Do cats do this stuff or is he trying to tell me something? It's annoying AS F*%K. I enjoy him. I can live without cuddles and affection, but I draw the line at being attacked.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He is NOT trying to tell you he is over stimulated. He is not a kid with ADHD
He is showing dominance. Licking and nibbling (small bites) establish his Alfa status.
Gently grab the scruff of his neck, very gently shake once and say "no". You are re-establishing that you are the mother cat or the alpha.
It is a common myth that people can grab the scruff of a cat's neck.
Only the cat's mommy can do that!!
Please OP, do not try this at home!!
Anonymous wrote:My 10 month old male cat, who is not affectionate to begin with, has started biting. He will lick me, then chomp. And not delicately. He licks my nose, then bites down. Licks my hand, then full-on attacks. It's unexpected, although I am beginning to fully expect it as of a few days ago. Do cats do this stuff or is he trying to tell me something? It's annoying AS F*%K. I enjoy him. I can live without cuddles and affection, but I draw the line at being attacked.
Anonymous wrote:He is NOT trying to tell you he is over stimulated. He is not a kid with ADHD
He is showing dominance. Licking and nibbling (small bites) establish his Alfa status.
Gently grab the scruff of his neck, very gently shake once and say "no". You are re-establishing that you are the mother cat or the alpha.
Anonymous wrote:He is trying to tell you when he gets overstimulated. Also, does he have other cats to play with? Did he grow up with an adult cat? The adult cat teaches the baby cat when it gets too be too much and scolds them, in a way we humans cannot. Was he raised in isolation or left his mom too young so he did not get this socialization?