Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 20:00     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Anonymous wrote:Report him.


??? For what?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 20:00     Subject: Re:male colleague staring at lips

Anonymous wrote:A) is there anything unusual about your lips.
B) maybe he doesn't like looking people in the eyes, I don't
C) does he do this with other people or just you?


I have hairy upper lip.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 19:59     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

There is nothing harassing or sexual or transgressive in this behavior OP.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 19:57     Subject: Re:male colleague staring at lips

op here:

I do not know if he does it to any one else.
Not comfortable asking anyone else about this at work.

One thing that I noted reading above comments is "reading lips"
I am wondering if that is what this is all about. He does have a different accent than mine.
I have trouble understanding what he says sometimes.
maybe he has trouble understanding what I say.



Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 19:25     Subject: Re:male colleague staring at lips

A) is there anything unusual about your lips.
B) maybe he doesn't like looking people in the eyes, I don't
C) does he do this with other people or just you?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 19:25     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Send a signal by covering your mouth with your hand. Put the discomfort on him.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 19:20     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Ask someone else to observe this behavior.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 19:18     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Anonymous wrote:Might be hearing impaired and reading lips.


I thought of hearing issue as well.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:49     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Maybe he's trying not to look at the boob area.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:44     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Report him.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:43     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Might be hearing impaired and reading lips.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:42     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Maybe he finds you hot and wants to kiss you.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:34     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

You are bothered by him looking at anyone's lips, not just yours?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:33     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

Does he have a hearing issue?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2016 18:31     Subject: male colleague staring at lips

a male colleague at work constantly staring at lips area when in meeting or discussion.
not sure if he is looking at hairy upper lip or chin or lips. is it a habit of his?
Makes me very uncomfortable and I try to look away or look down to avoid it or cover my lips.
He is a nice person, so I doubt if this is any kind of flirting.
How to handle this? just want him to stop staring at lips.