Anonymous wrote:The church where you were baptized should have all your records. At least here in NY, the place you're baptized is considered the "keeper" of of your records, and they would have been sent your first communion date and such.
Yes, that is the regulation everywhere. You are entitled to copies of your records regardless of who has died, etc. Just call your baptismal church and give them as many details as you have so they can easily look up their files. Even if you don't need them (which you likely will eventually) I would request them just to have. In the meantime I would suggest finding area churches (Holy Trinity comes to mind but there are also many in Montgomery County suburbs that are socially active) and attend Mass/read the bulletins/read their websites/attend some events. Committing to more right now is a lot.
Moving forward, when you find a parish home you will find their faith formation classes. Our parish even has special classes for kids who missed "traditional" timing for sacraments so they don't have to go to religious education with younger kids. If you pursue faith formation classes and feel called to continue in the church, you will likely have your marriage blessed in the church (provided neither of you were previously divorced. Is your DH Catholic?) Your parish will help you find sponsors/godparents. Many RCIA teachers do it for their "students."
I also highly encourage you to speak with the priests you meet. I'm sure you will find several who will be very helpful in guiding you into a fulfilling church experience. When you do find your new parish, post again and I will try to help more.