I tried with DH last night and he couldn't get hard. He is embarrassed and it's been a month since we had sex. He always says he wants it and then claims performance anxiety. I quit trying because he was never very good anyway. So frustrated.

Anonymous wrote:Went away for six days. My husband never had an orgasm with me. He tried once through intercourse. Never wanted a bj. Isn't this strange?

Yes. When we go on vacation I get to look at barely dressed women all day at the beach. Definitely leaves me horny by day's end.

You say never had an orgasm, does that mean you attempted sex and were unable to complete? Was he jerking off while you got your morning coffee?

DH and I were just away for 6 days and we had sex multiple times a day. Married 14 years. We have sex about 3-4x a week at home.

Not normal for most men. Good questions above re whether normal for you/him

Is he on any meds?

Does he spend a lot of time in his "home office" "working"? (In other words, could he have developed an issue where he needs porn to get off?)

We have sex once or twice a week. Married 23years. On vacation it can be once the whole trip or everyday - depends.

Anonymous wrote:Went away for six days. My husband never had an orgasm with me. He tried once through intercourse. Never wanted a bj. Isn't this strange?

Was a bj offered and rejected or are you assuming he didn't want one?
What happened when there was intercourse but no orgasm? He just couldn't get over the edge? Interrupted by something?

Are you over weight?

I know a couple who did this, but purposely chose to share a small space with parents. H was cheating.

Is he depressed? Overweight? Cheating?

Just wanted to cover all of the stock responses upfront.

Do you have kids? Were the kids with you the whole time? Did they sleep in the same room as you?

How is your relationship other than sex ... could that be interfering with sex?

Is this normal for you all? How old are you? Normal for me and my DH; however, I think he's asexual... So, there you go.

Anonymous wrote:Went away for six days. My husband never had an orgasm with me. He tried once through intercourse. Never wanted a bj. Isn't this strange?

How long have you been married? What is your sex life like at home? Was he feeling ok?

Went away for six days. My husband never had an orgasm with me. He tried once through intercourse. Never wanted a bj. Isn't this strange?