Anonymous wrote:OP here. 11:07,i totally believe what you said. They're not good with multiple failures and kept telling me w just had to keep trying. After a m/c and 3 other failures with PGS normal embryos they're now telling me to do the ERA test to see if an extra day of progesterone is warranted. I'm about 5% hopeful and will be transferring my last 2 embryos after this test, either way. I figure if I were to change to another clinic they'd want to do another retrieval cycle and after being 30K in and exhausting insurance coverage I'm just about spent. I struggle with the idea of I had come to this realization earlier, perhaps I would've gotten a second opinion but SGF always said "it'll happen! You're lucky to have gotten as many PGS embryos as you did - - try again". And so we did. In hindsight everything is 20/20. If this helps something think about looking for that second opinion singer then I would tell you to do it. Go with your gut! If you don't think trying the sand thing over and over again will work, go somewhere else. I'm at peace with my decision. My experience with IVF is nearly over, but that doesn't mean all hope is lost. Just gotta try something else until I feel line it's truly the end.
Get a second opinion before transferring the embryos, even if it's to confirm everything is fine. Or you may end up finding out you need something simple like a prescription for synthroid. Or you may end up having the embryos shipped to another clinic for transfer. You've put so much into his already, don't go through the steps and resign yourself to failure.