Anonymous wrote:1). He did it intentionally because there's a surprise at the end of the day.
2). He did it intentionally because he's a dick.
3). It was inadvertent. Which makes him a self-absorbed dick.
Make reservations for you and the kids. Leave a note and a package of ramen.
Happy Birthday!
Anonymous wrote:He knows it's my birthday because our kids gave me hugs this morning and sang to me. Never offered to bring home dinner either. He just assumes I will make it (as I always do).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"Hey Jason, just a heads up: since today's my birthday I'm not making dinner tonight. That's my present to myself. I'd love for you to make something Italian for dinner - not pizza. If you don't, I'm taking myself out to dinner alone."
Say what you want. Don't sit around hoping it'll happen and then get angry it didn't.
This. This is the year to give him a clue.
And sorry.
Anonymous wrote:"Hey Jason, just a heads up: since today's my birthday I'm not making dinner tonight. That's my present to myself. I'd love for you to make something Italian for dinner - not pizza. If you don't, I'm taking myself out to dinner alone."
Say what you want. Don't sit around hoping it'll happen and then get angry it didn't.
Anonymous wrote:"Hey Jason, just a heads up: since today's my birthday I'm not making dinner tonight. That's my present to myself. I'd love for you to make something Italian for dinner - not pizza. If you don't, I'm taking myself out to dinner alone."
Say what you want. Don't sit around hoping it'll happen and then get angry it didn't.