Anonymous wrote:I am serious. Why take on tremendous debt for Stanford when you can be just as more successful than your Stanford peers?
http://www.60secondrecap.com/forbes-30-under-30-colleges/
Congrats to your daughter.
I know you say you would pay for Stanford, but what does that mean.? If your daughter is looking at medschool one day and you will be tapped out after Stanford, maybe the scholarship is the better choice. If you will be paying your parent plus loans until you are seventy, I'd think hard about Stanford.
All that said, if you canoeing it without closing future doors or ruining your own future, go for Stanford.