Anonymous wrote:Your husband betrayed you and you're focused on the other women? WTF.
This is pretty insensitive. This is Someone who had their world turned upside down by their SO, the person who was supposed to love them. I wouldn't cut in line at a grocery store line because its rude, so I think cutting in someone's marriage is very rude.
Sorting this out, what it means, getting answers to your questions, getting information, because tons of information was hidden - is a stage people go through. After all, the OW probably looked at OP's FB. I guarantee the OW did this. Let OP go through her stage, she'll get over it. She's not blind that her SO cheated, and I guarantee he's getting an earful too.
It's like grief. This is a stage.