Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 23:22     Subject: Just told him it's over
Courage?? For giving up on marriage??
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 23:19     Subject: Just told him it's over
Anonymous wrote:Thank you all. Really. You're it right now so thanks. I have to process this before I tell people in our world.


Hugs OP. I think you should grab your calendar and pencil in a few fun events. Girls night... picnics... especially things your H wasn't in too.

Maybe write yourself a letter commending yourself for doing something that probably needed to be done for a long time.
Vsubois19
Post 03/20/2016 22:50     Subject: Just told him it's over
Anonymous wrote:OP this was a big step. What do you most need right now? Give yourself that.

Mine will take it likely the same maybe plus some extra agression. I am building courage.

So tough but be proud of yourself for doing what so many can't.

+1 courage
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:43     Subject: Just told him it's over
Thank you all. Really. You're it right now so thanks. I have to process this before I tell people in our world.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:42     Subject: Just told him it's over
OP this was a big step. What do you most need right now? Give yourself that.

Mine will take it likely the same maybe plus some extra agression. I am building courage.

So tough but be proud of yourself for doing what so many can't.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:37     Subject: Just told him it's over
Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW. The question was is it a bf or DH and are there kids.
I'm not okay, Pp but thank you for asking.


Sorry poor comprehension on my part. But I still feel the same I know it's hard, but you should be proud of yourself for ending what seems like a toxic relationship You will get through this. Some days will be hard, very, very hard, but you'll get through this and be stronger.
Wishing you and your kids the best. Hugs.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:35     Subject: Just told him it's over
I'm sorry, OP.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:33     Subject: Just told him it's over
I'm a DW. The question was is it a bf or DH and are there kids.
I'm not okay, Pp but thank you for asking.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:23     Subject: Just told him it's over
Anonymous wrote:DH. Kids. Tragic I know.


Are you the dad in the cheaters thread? If so you should be extremely proud of yourself.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:15     Subject: Just told him it's over
are you okay?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:04     Subject: Just told him it's over
DH. Kids. Tragic I know.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:03     Subject: Just told him it's over
Boyfriend or DH? How long were you together? Kids?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 22:01     Subject: Just told him it's over
Like this. In this order:

Silent treatment
Apology
Guilt
Aggression
Bribery
Apology
Anger
Threats
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 20:40     Subject: Just told him it's over
How did he take it?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2016 20:28     Subject: Just told him it's over
I'm scared and sad. I so wish this wasn't our reality, but I just don't think we can put this off anymore.