Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are putting your cart waaaaay before the horse. You have no idea if your sons will be the least bit interested in entering a field that uses their language skills. You also have no idea just how fluent they will be, especially after they leave immersion school since the language is not spoken in their home. Chances are, their knowledge of mandarin will be a novelty, not a life skill.
I'm just trying to avoid what my parents did... never pay attention to me, never take interest in my education, never mentor me, and never discuss finance or career. I had to figure it all out on my own, and paid a price.
I, too, don't want to make the mistakes my parents made, and I fear, looking back, that my choices would remind an outsider of a pendulum... In other words, still making mistakes, just the opposite ones, which are still mistakes and still serving the child poorly...
You want to stress out little kids? Worry too much about who they should be instead of embracing who they are.
And if you really want the mandarin to stick, try learning some yourself.