You should break up with her, and give her a chance to find a normal guy who won't be concern-trolling her for having TWO glasses of wine on a weekend night. Christ.

Anonymous wrote:She doesn't black out. Is she having any other problems caused by her drinking?

That's not the only symptom of an issue? Binging in general is unhealthy.

She doesn't black out. Is she having any other problems caused by her drinking?

Anonymous wrote:2-4 glasses per session, or over the course of a weekend? Four is a lot at one time, otherwise it's fine.

+1. Also, to the "I was functional even though I was regularly wasted!" Posters - yeah, me too, but not being an alcoholic doesn't mean you aren't doing something very unhealthy.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't drink so I can't say what is appropriate amounts or not.

Why bother to post?

Yeah, this isn't Facebook. Who the hell cares?

Anonymous wrote:2-4 glasses per session, or over the course of a weekend? Four is a lot at one time, otherwise it's fine.

She normally will drink both Friday and Saturday night. Sometimes it's half a bottle, sometimes it the entire bottle.

2-4 glasses per session, or over the course of a weekend? Four is a lot at one time, otherwise it's fine.

Anonymous wrote:I don't drink so I can't say what is appropriate amounts or not.

Why bother to post?

2 glasses once a week is fine. Four is kind of a lot.

Anonymous wrote:I don't drink so I can't say what is appropriate amounts or not.

But thanks for playing!

What an idiot.

Op here. She can relax without it. She said she just enjoys the taste. It isn't affecting her job and she isn't violent. It just makes her horny ( no objection there). I guess I am overthinking this then.

2-4 glasses on a weekend night doesn't seem like very much to me. When I was 26 I was getting wasted maybe 2-3 nights a week. It was never a problem for me, did well at my job and in law school, most of my friends and boyfriend (now DH) drank just as much. I rarely drink now. Is her drinking causing problems in her life? With her job? Is she getting drunk and violent towards you?

I think it's a problem when a person can't relax or half fun without alcohol.

I don't drink so I can't say what is appropriate amounts or not.

My girlfriend used to never drink but she has changed the past 6 months. It started out with her drinking wine and I guess enjoying it. The past few months she drinks every weekend, usually 2-4 glasses. Sometimes we are home, other times we are out. She gets tipsy but not blacked out or anything. I asked her and she said she enjoys the taste, and enjoys being able to let loose. She is a student so we do have stressful weeks. We are both 26.