Anonymous wrote:Yay i snoop all the time.

What do you?

Yay i snoop all the time.

I snooped only because I suspected something was going and found DH flirting with another woman and he was lying about it. Now I have to keep an eye on him, Sigh.

Anonymous wrote:My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.

That is completely untrue. I do not like my husband using my phone, computer, and there are no red-flags. i am not secretive, per se, but I like privacy. i don't want my husband seeing all the weird things I google, for example. He receives the same privacy. I never ever use his phone or computer and I don't even go in his dresser drawers. Married people are entitled to space, too!

Anonymous wrote:My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.

+1. I don't snoop, but I use his email, cell and computer occasionally. We have nothing to hide. I know all his passwords and he knows mine.

Anonymous wrote:I do, and I totally trust my DH, so I think I'm just nosy. It's made me really hate one of his friends in particular.

Probably because you found out one of his friends isn't a good person. I pay the phone bills, so I see calls etc. I wouldn't be with anyone who was like that.

My phone died before so we shared for awhile, how it should be. I suspect some cheaters on here who got caught or are hiding something.

I would never want my spouse to feel like they can't look at my phone or computer. That's a terrible way to be imo.

Nope, total violation of privacy.

*mad if he found out you were snooping

Anonymous wrote:I do, and I totally trust my DH, so I think I'm just nosy. It's made me really hate one of his friends in particular.

Would he be mad if you found out?

My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.

Snooping is gross.

I do, and I totally trust my DH, so I think I'm just nosy. It's made me really hate one of his friends in particular.

Anonymous wrote:Do you snoop on your spouse or significant other even if you suspect nothing is going on or is it considered a violation of privacy?

Hell no. I don't even pick up my wife's phone, and AFAIK, she doesn't look at mine or anything else. I have no tolerance for that kind of nosing around. I also can't un-see something once I see it, so if she's saying something about me to someone else and it's not meant for my ears, I'm better off not hearing it.

Do you snoop on your spouse or significant other even if you suspect nothing is going on or is it considered a violation of privacy?