Anonymous
Post 03/01/2016 06:53     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Told me my special needs child just needed better discipline and that I was a horrible mother; made it clear that we were no longer welcome in their home. Thanks for that.
Vsubois19
Post 03/01/2016 06:02     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:One time my sister left me stranded at our homecoming. She was my ride home and I got stood up so I sat in the back of the gym for 3 hours waiting for the dance to be over. When I walked to the car she wouldn't let me in and drove off with all her friends laughing in my face.


That is horrible. I feel sad this happened to you.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2016 05:07     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:My DD suffers from anxiety. It's pretty severe. My sister concocted a plan for DD to move in with her a few thousand miles away, thinking that she'd be a better role model and provide a more stable environment. She wanted DD to live with her throughout high school. I'm happily married to my children's father, DD is in therapy and on medication, and we're seeing progress. Not exactly an unstable environment.
My sister continues making bad choices with men, has been in an abusive relationship, has bipolar disorder and a dui. It's not her fault that she has bipolar disorder or that her ex bf was a dick, but I would never dream of putting anxiety ridden DD in that kind of environment. When I told her no thanks, she flipped out and called DD disturbed and said that no one takes her opinions seriously as the aunt. Wtf. We've barely spoken since then.


This episode sounds like a symptom of your sister's mental illness. I don't think she deliberately set out to hurt you. While I'm sure it was upsetting to you and possibly frightening to your daughter, I don't know why you would personalize it rather than look at it as a bipolar episode. People with bipolar often think they have a godlike ability to "save" others.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2016 03:27     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
My DD suffers from anxiety. It's pretty severe. My sister concocted a plan for DD to move in with her a few thousand miles away, thinking that she'd be a better role model and provide a more stable environment. She wanted DD to live with her throughout high school. I'm happily married to my children's father, DD is in therapy and on medication, and we're seeing progress. Not exactly an unstable environment.
My sister continues making bad choices with men, has been in an abusive relationship, has bipolar disorder and a dui. It's not her fault that she has bipolar disorder or that her ex bf was a dick, but I would never dream of putting anxiety ridden DD in that kind of environment. When I told her no thanks, she flipped out and called DD disturbed and said that no one takes her opinions seriously as the aunt. Wtf. We've barely spoken since then.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 21:45     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:Told me that the rest of my surviving family didn't care about me. This was not when we were kids, but a few years ago as adults. Of course it's not true, and that one sibling is a manipulative asshole.


Similar to this , but called me a bitch too, this sibling is mentally ill so I know not to take what she says to seriously, but it still hurt.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 21:44     Subject: Re:Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:When my nanny quit with no notice, leaving me with an infant and a toddler while DH was deployed, AND I was just starting a surgical Fellowship. She told me that I'd better not ask our Dad to come stay and help me while I found a new nanny, because that would screw up her childcare. When I pointed out that she had her own business and could set her own hours and was lecturing my from the pool, she said "Well, when you pick up one end of the stick, you pick up the other".

Now that she has no retirement savings, no money to send her kids to college and is deeply in debt, I can't wait to tell her from my vacation homes in Florida and Colorado, when I retire at 55, "I guess I picked up the correct stick, bitch!"



You both seem incredibly selfish and immature. I feel sorry for your dad.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 21:44     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not did to me but said about me. I was raped and went through the legal process etc. He was not indicted and in hindsight I wish I didn't go to the police or tell my family. Anyway one sibling told me the that the other thought I made it up. While I was a little troubled and had a drama filled life (what 23 yr old doesn't) I most certainly didn't make it up.


Thank you for going to the police. That was the right thing to do. Survivors of rape who report the rapists are protecting other potential victims.



I hate this type of thinking.

Yes it's great that pp was able to report the crime, but don't you dare put the safety of others on the survivors it's the rapists and the rapists alone who are responsible.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 21:35     Subject: Re:Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
When my nanny quit with no notice, leaving me with an infant and a toddler while DH was deployed, AND I was just starting a surgical Fellowship. She told me that I'd better not ask our Dad to come stay and help me while I found a new nanny, because that would screw up her childcare. When I pointed out that she had her own business and could set her own hours and was lecturing my from the pool, she said "Well, when you pick up one end of the stick, you pick up the other".

Now that she has no retirement savings, no money to send her kids to college and is deeply in debt, I can't wait to tell her from my vacation homes in Florida and Colorado, when I retire at 55, "I guess I picked up the correct stick, bitch!"
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 20:40     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:Not did to me but said about me. I was raped and went through the legal process etc. He was not indicted and in hindsight I wish I didn't go to the police or tell my family. Anyway one sibling told me the that the other thought I made it up. While I was a little troubled and had a drama filled life (what 23 yr old doesn't) I most certainly didn't make it up.


Thank you for going to the police. That was the right thing to do. Survivors of rape who report the rapists are protecting other potential victims.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 20:37     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Anonymous wrote:One time my sister left me stranded at our homecoming. She was my ride home and I got stood up so I sat in the back of the gym for 3 hours waiting for the dance to be over. When I walked to the car she wouldn't let me in and drove off with all her friends laughing in my face.


Did she get in trouble? I'd be livid at my daughter if she did this.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 20:10     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Told me that the rest of my surviving family didn't care about me. This was not when we were kids, but a few years ago as adults. Of course it's not true, and that one sibling is a manipulative asshole.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 20:08     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Stood by while his kids were mean to my special needs child.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 20:08     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
My SIL had a surprise bday party for my brother and didn't invite me.

The following morning, there were pictures all over FB with pictures of a glamorous party.

#stillhurt
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 20:04     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
Not did to me but said about me. I was raped and went through the legal process etc. He was not indicted and in hindsight I wish I didn't go to the police or tell my family. Anyway one sibling told me the that the other thought I made it up. While I was a little troubled and had a drama filled life (what 23 yr old doesn't) I most certainly didn't make it up.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2016 19:58     Subject: Whats the most hurtful thing a sibling ever did to do?
One time my sister left me stranded at our homecoming. She was my ride home and I got stood up so I sat in the back of the gym for 3 hours waiting for the dance to be over. When I walked to the car she wouldn't let me in and drove off with all her friends laughing in my face.