Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 23:33     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Nope

I'm not helping any man play alimony and/or child support.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 23:31     Subject: Re:Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Anonymous wrote:The fact that you are even asking if this is a good idea proves that you are dumb enough to be candidate for Baby Mama #4.


Bingo
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:56     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Okay. Wait a minute. I would never go for this, because 25 is awfully young to contemplate 3 step kids, let alone 3 step kids with 3 different moms, which seems like a nightmare. But she said this guy was only 31. I hope all the hell to the no people on here never made a series of bad decisions before age 20. Didn't sleep with three different guys, whatever. I think the way he has dealt with this situation since then, the kind of parent he has become, whether he pays child support-- in other words, whether he grew up and took responsibility is what matters if you are asking about his character.

Op-- I am a mom of tweens and teens. And yes, I would be very concerned if by DD brought this guy home-- because his life is incredibly complicated-- or should be, if he is parenting properly. And I would hate for her to be saddled with all of that obligation at that point in her life. Harsh I know, but I would want her to focus on starting her own life and having her own kids, which could be very hard in the situation you're describing. Because if he has 3 kids, he should be paying for those three kids, and making them the priority in making plans-- not you. But I would not necessarily think he was a terrible person.

But if you stay with him, you birth control (and backup birth control) FFS.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:45     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
he's obviously an alpha male - you are attracted to them. go for it op
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:33     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
No he didn't marry any of them. Do I tell him the reason I'm not interested anymore? I feel like a jerk
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:33     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Good lord, no.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:31     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Hell to the no!! Did he marry any of them?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:31     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Op here, that's what my gut is telling me. Kind of sad since we have been getting along really well. Oh well
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:30     Subject: Re:Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:30     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Hahahahahaha no
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:30     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Hell no.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:29     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
Nope.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:29     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
No way.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:28     Subject: Re:Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
The fact that you are even asking if this is a good idea proves that you are dumb enough to be candidate for Baby Mama #4.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2016 22:27     Subject: Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"
So I met a guy recently and we hit it off. I'm 25, no children, and he's 31 and has three children ages 11, 12, and 13 from 3 different moms. I don't necesarily have a problem with it but it's got me thinking. He said he's made a lot of mistakes but he loves his kids and they have made him a better person. I think my parents would be very disappointed. What are your thoughts?