Have you spoken with HR?

Anonymous wrote:You're not stuck, OP. Just quit and find a new job.

+1
Been there, done that, and still see others bullied by the same jerk. And yes, the dynamic is the same--the bullied employee is made to feel incompetent and therefore feels trapped because s/he thinks nobody else will hire him/her.

You're not stuck, OP. Just quit and find a new job.

Anonymous wrote:Have you tried simply saying "Bob, why are you so hard on me?"

That rarely turns out well.

It is not toxic everywhere. Find someplace that is not toxic, with another group or another job.

Have you tried simply saying "Bob, why are you so hard on me?"

Look for a new job before his criticism gets in your head and really jacks you up.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you're bad at your job.

Probably this, regardless it won't turn around under this jerk's watch. You should start looking for a new gig.

Look for a new job. Now.

Maybe you're bad at your job.

If he doesn't like you, it is only a matter of time until you are out of there. I would start job-hunting now.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Quit and find a new job.

+1. Get out of the toxic environment. Toxicity sucks the life out of you and life is so much better when you work with great people.

Op here.

I feel absolutely miserable and incompetent due to how he treats me. He is always laughing and joking with others and if someone screws something up he responds with, "it happens dont worry!" but with me it is " you are so unprofessional!" to " do you NOT know how to do this?!"

I'm humiliated and doubt my abilities.

I don't want to tell on him because itll be awkward.

So I'm stuck.

Anonymous wrote:Quit and find a new job.

+1. Get out of the toxic environment. Toxicity sucks the life out of you and life is so much better when you work with great people.

Quit and find a new job.

My boss singles me out and mistreats me all the time.

What should I do?