There is actually an alarm type gadget that you can buy which you clip to the underwear and it wakes the child up to use the bathroom when it senses wetness. We did this for my 10 year old DS who was a regular bed wetter and it was very effective after about a week's use. Our pediatrician recommended it, given that there were no underlying medical issues causes the wetting.

My 10 year old dd still wets the bed and wears underjams. When she is on a sleepover, she just puts her underjam on when she goes to change into her pjs. No one seems to notice. She is discrete and doesn't tell anyone about it. I have told her that it's no one else's business.

My 11 yr old dd still wets the bed sometimes. You many want to try the adult panty diapers. I know they have some that are like sanitary napkins. My dd has used these in the past and has felt very comfortable.

I'd check with a dr. This seems late to be still wetting the bed.

My 11 year old ddr wets the bed. And she got invited for a trip away from home for two days and will have to share a bed with her friend. Will goodnites not smell and be dicreet before and after wet? Thannks ! We don't use them at home because she doesn't like wearing them , but will try it if she has to go away with her friend. It only happens about 1-3 times a month now.,