Anonymous
01/07/2016 22:06
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
So & I don't swing, but we're kinky. I see 50 and older people buying the same sex toys that I did in my late 20s. I also had a Dom who was in his mid-50s when I was in my mid-30s. I was a bit old for him, but there were plenty of hot dominant women in their fifties. Many had male as well as female subs.
The first thing I learned is that kinky bodies come in all shapes and sizes, and some kinky people are not fully able-bodied. I don't mean any sort of specific disability fetish, but rather, you may meet a sub who had shoulder surgery and can't assume certain submissive positions anymore or a Dom who has bad knees. Increasingly, we meet people who have mild, well-controlled mental illness such as bipolar or depression or who acknowledge/seem to be in the spectrum.
I suspect that there are older people who swing either in mixed age groups or in older crowds. If you are kinky and not just a pretty vanilla wife-swapper, google a local "munch" and go if you are interested. People will know that you're a newbie and most are cautiously friendly. It helps if you join an online community first and learn a bit of the culture. Most kinky folks I know (even the exhibitionists) don't want lookyloo tourists ruining an otherwise pleasant afternoon with judgement.
The first thing I learned is that kinky bodies come in all shapes and sizes, and some kinky people are not fully able-bodied. I don't mean any sort of specific disability fetish, but rather, you may meet a sub who had shoulder surgery and can't assume certain submissive positions anymore or a Dom who has bad knees. Increasingly, we meet people who have mild, well-controlled mental illness such as bipolar or depression or who acknowledge/seem to be in the spectrum.
I suspect that there are older people who swing either in mixed age groups or in older crowds. If you are kinky and not just a pretty vanilla wife-swapper, google a local "munch" and go if you are interested. People will know that you're a newbie and most are cautiously friendly. It helps if you join an online community first and learn a bit of the culture. Most kinky folks I know (even the exhibitionists) don't want lookyloo tourists ruining an otherwise pleasant afternoon with judgement.
Anonymous
01/07/2016 22:05
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Anonymous wrote:Well, at some point of forgetfulness even your own DW/DH is new, right? No yeah.
SNORT
Anonymous
01/07/2016 21:59
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Consider one of the threads is titled - Over 50, and my feet suddenly ache! Limping, hobblling, ugh - I'd say this is not a good idea.
-49 yo woman
Just another smug under 50 poster.
Anonymous
01/07/2016 21:54
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Well, at some point of forgetfulness even your own DW/DH is new, right? No yeah.
Anonymous
01/07/2016 21:48
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Anonymous wrote:Consider one of the threads is titled - Over 50, and my feet suddenly ache! Limping, hobblling, ugh - I'd say this is not a good idea.
-49 yo woman
Just another smug under 50 poster.
Anonymous
01/07/2016 20:42
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Consider one of the threads is titled - Over 50, and my feet suddenly ache! Limping, hobblling, ugh - I'd say this is not a good idea.
-49 yo woman
-49 yo woman
Anonymous
01/07/2016 14:53
Subject: Re:Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Yes. They meet at Clyde's at Tower Oaks on Friday evenings.
Sidle up to pretty much anyone there and whisper the question, "are you here to swing?" You are sure to get an affirmative answer.
Sidle up to pretty much anyone there and whisper the question, "are you here to swing?" You are sure to get an affirmative answer.
Anonymous
01/06/2016 20:21
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Are you still supposed to look for white landscaping rocks?
Anonymous
01/06/2016 20:10
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Anonymous wrote:I guess those of us who were swinging in the 60's should be swinging in our sixties.
No, it's time to grow up.
Anonymous
01/06/2016 20:10
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Please God NO!
Signed,
49 + not wanting to picture the lack of muscle tone in
AARP members during swing sessions
Signed,
49 + not wanting to picture the lack of muscle tone in
AARP members during swing sessions
Anonymous
01/06/2016 20:08
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
I guess those of us who were swinging in the 60's should be swinging in our sixties.
Anonymous
01/05/2016 23:52
Subject: Re:Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
Anonymous wrote:NO. NOT EVER.
Meaning?
Anonymous
01/05/2016 23:51
Subject: Re:Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
NO. NOT EVER.
Anonymous
01/05/2016 23:49
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
OP - thoughts?
Anonymous
01/05/2016 23:48
Subject: Is there a swingers scene for the over fifty crowd?
I'm not I'm the market for this, but it occurred to me that we boomers have taken over everything else so we are probably in this space too.