Anonymous wrote:Agree with PPs. Do more research before you confront him. Has anyone else driven his car? Did he loan it to a younger relative or co-worker?

I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but do a bit of sleuthing first before you talk with him.

Some men use condoms with forms of maturation too. Not saying your DH isn't going to turn out to be a lying cheater, but I'd require more evidence than an odd condom.

Agree with PPs. Do more research before you confront him. Has anyone else driven his car? Did he loan it to a younger relative or co-worker?

I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but do a bit of sleuthing first before you talk with him.

I am sorry.

A couple of years before my mom died I went to get my dad's car registration out of his glove compartment so she could finish some paperwork.

I opened the glove compartment and at least a dozen wrapped condoms fell out.

She said she would put the registration back but I hung around and did it for her so she wouldn't see what was inside. As far as I know she didn't find out before she died. I have only shared this info with one of my siblings, and this was several years after she passed away.

I am sorry OP. That is a shocking thing to find in the car.

More details about his use of that particular car, please. Also, how much opportunity does he get, in terms of work hours and travel?

I would be concerned, honestly, and I would scrounge around for more info before making noises.

Do not say anything as badly as you may want to. Dig further. Computer history, phone records, etc.

Was it Jon Voight's car?

Anonymous wrote:LOL. Why don't you just ask him?

What's funny about this? It's potentially devastating to OP.

How long has he had his car and was it a new car?

Anonymous wrote:Can't imagine why he would have a condom when he's been married for 8 years.

Don't confront, look for more evidence. If he's this sloppy with a condom and he's cheating, there's way more evidence if you know to look.

+1.

Oh and THEN you confront.

Alternately, bluff. Throw the condom on the table and say "And I found the rest. How painful do you want this to be?" He will fold like a deck of cheap cards if he thinks you have more and he's guilty.

Can't imagine why he would have a condom when he's been married for 8 years.

Don't confront, look for more evidence. If he's this sloppy with a condom and he's cheating, there's way more evidence if you know to look.

Well I doubt that condoms have an expiration period of 8 years, so it's time for a major talk.
At least he was safe??! I'm sorry.

He cheated. Check his phone and computer.

LOL. Why don't you just ask him?

We swapped cars today and when I got in, I reached over to close the opened glove compartment and found it there. I hardly ever drive his car or sit in it as a passenger since we have kids and I'm not sure how long it's been there. I don't know to think or if I should confront him or how to confront him. The condom has an expiration date of 10/2016, we've been married for 8 years and our youngest is barely 2. We've been busy with kids but he had a period of unemployment, totaled his SUV and we've been exclusively using my car when going out as a family.

I'm so confused right now.