Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:37     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
No, I don't think you should say anything but if you insist. Only bring it up to him in private.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:37     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:Hilarious thread. Happy Holidays


+1

(OP, if you're not a troll, you should be ashamed of yourself.)
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:35     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Hilarious thread. Happy Holidays
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:33     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Isn't the house half hers, too? And wouldn't the husband being walking away with his half if they divorced?

Not understanding your point or why you think that this is even a teeny bit of your beeswax.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:30     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This sounds like a postcard from a morally bankrupt family Christmas gathering. Assumptions here include that 1) he is miserable because his wife is fat; 2) he will leave her because she is fat; 3) his decision-making about marriage should be based on finances.


The house is worth at least 500k and it is rapidly increasing in value. One must seriously take this into consideration.


They're in a 500K house? On DCUM we call that a sh*t shack. These relatives are clearly not worth your time. Head for the punch bowl and chat up bigger fish.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:28     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?

You sound like my mother - quick to relate disparate things together and create a catastrophic future in her mind. Which never happens.

Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:27     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Why would YOU say anything, OP? Mind your own business and stop meddling into other people's affairs.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:23     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
I bet the wife is not happy, either. Think about her.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:22     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
what? What? What wisdom do you think you have to impart to these grown up adult people living their lives and not asking for input?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:20     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
OMG. NO. - you can say hey you seem upset. What's going on?

If he says what's up that's one thing. If not leave it alone.

They could be going through something together that he is unhappy about and she is eating because of the stress.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:19     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:This sounds like a postcard from a morally bankrupt family Christmas gathering. Assumptions here include that 1) he is miserable because his wife is fat; 2) he will leave her because she is fat; 3) his decision-making about marriage should be based on finances.


The house is worth at least 500k and it is rapidly increasing in value. One must seriously take this into consideration.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:14     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
what the hell?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:13     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
This sounds like a postcard from a morally bankrupt family Christmas gathering. Assumptions here include that 1) he is miserable because his wife is fat; 2) he will leave her because she is fat; 3) his decision-making about marriage should be based on finances.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:10     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Say what? "Your wife is fat"? He knows that already.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:09     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
If he leaves her she would likely walk away with half of his net worth including the house.
It is very obvious he does not look happy.
Should I say something to him about it.