Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 18:09     Subject: Re:DH's love letter to ex
Shake it off. If he wanted to be with her he would.

I used to have hot kinky sex before I got married. Now I have every blue moon boring married sex. I love my DH and boring is the price of being with him - so be it,
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 18:05     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
I honestly think people go looking for trouble when they want to find it.

Out of boredom or a need for drama, or whatever.

Forget you saw it, move on.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 16:46     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
Be sorry you snooped. Don't be sorry they exist. Here and now is all that really matters. You are not her, she is not you. Chances are he's a different man - you couldn't have this man if your wanted him.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 11:28     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
I was told once that men don't marry the one they most passionately love. That was the case with me. But it would never have lasted.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 10:32     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
How long ago was this letter written?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 10:32     Subject: Re:DH's love letter to ex
Anonymous wrote:I had a girl once that I was very passionate with. More so than my wife of 17 years.

The sex was great but otherwise we sucked together. Nothing but drama.

My wife and I are much more compatible and I have no doubts about who I should have married.



+1 on this. Had a very passionate, wild, very sexual relationship with a woman when I was younger. However, she had issues "beyond the dreams of analysts" (to quote Mel Brooks).

DW is not as wild, we're both older, the sex is less frequent and more vanilla, but I wouldn't trade what I have with her.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 10:04     Subject: Re:DH's love letter to ex
I had a girl once that I was very passionate with. More so than my wife of 17 years.

The sex was great but otherwise we sucked together. Nothing but drama.

My wife and I are much more compatible and I have no doubts about who I should have married.

Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 09:51     Subject: Re:DH's love letter to ex
Why did they breakup?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 09:40     Subject: Re:DH's love letter to ex
You sound really insecure.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 08:14     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
When I'm bored I paint my toenails. I suggest you try it instead of looking for trouble.

You're his present. The end.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 08:08     Subject: Re:DH's love letter to ex
He was younger then. Men are much more passionate when the are younger. My DH was and I mean with me.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 06:14     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
Anonymous wrote:He had his email logged in and I was bored so i quickly searched his exes name and up pops an email he wrote to her back from when they were together. It was a love letter. He was so passionate and expressive and wrote about what an amazing time he had that weekend with her and how he can't get her outbid his mind and wishes so badly that he was with her.

I'm jealous. His lie letters to me do not contain that sense of urgency and passion.



How passionate and urgent are you with him these days?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 01:47     Subject: DH's love letter to ex
He had his email logged in and I was bored so i quickly searched his exes name and up pops an email he wrote to her back from when they were together. It was a love letter. He was so passionate and expressive and wrote about what an amazing time he had that weekend with her and how he can't get her outbid his mind and wishes so badly that he was with her.

I'm jealous. His lie letters to me do not contain that sense of urgency and passion.