Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 22:26     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Anonymous wrote:I was the OW. Our kids are good friends, that's how we met. It wasn't immediate. Took well over a year for it to take a turn to inappropriateness.

Needless to say, our entire lives, and those of our kids, would've come crashing down should anyone have ever found out. We both would've needed to move away because we are so entrenched in the "social" scene where we live. So we are trying to end it, but it's hard.

It's a shame. We love each other, but divorce is not an option for either of us. Don't want to lose seeing our kids daily and financially it doesn't make sense at the moment. Our kids are at the age where it would be years before we could actually leave our spouses. To risky to keep this up for that long.


+1 but we stopped right before it became an affair.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 22:21     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
People, you know there are entire forums devoted to affairs, right? Several of them. Maybe you should spread out from dcum.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 21:50     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
I was the OW. Our kids are good friends, that's how we met. It wasn't immediate. Took well over a year for it to take a turn to inappropriateness.

Needless to say, our entire lives, and those of our kids, would've come crashing down should anyone have ever found out. We both would've needed to move away because we are so entrenched in the "social" scene where we live. So we are trying to end it, but it's hard.

It's a shame. We love each other, but divorce is not an option for either of us. Don't want to lose seeing our kids daily and financially it doesn't make sense at the moment. Our kids are at the age where it would be years before we could actually leave our spouses. To risky to keep this up for that long.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 20:52     Subject: Re:Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Old friends from high school. Caught up and sparks flew.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 20:38     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Work.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 19:46     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
WHY ARE THERE SO MANY THREADS ON THIS!?
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 19:45     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Where did you meet? Did you initiate or did she? How soon after meeting?


Are you asking how and where or just how?


OP here. I guess both.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 19:39     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Anonymous wrote:Where did you meet? Did you initiate or did she? How soon after meeting?


Are you asking how and where or just how?
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 19:26     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
We met online. Isn't there already a thread on this in explicit?
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 18:50     Subject: Re:Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP again. Now that the holidays are over, anyone care to respond?


Nope.


I find this curious. There are so many other threads on here about affairs, why are anonymous posters reluctant to say where they met their affair partners?

I'm not asking about specific names of restaurants but just wondering more generally.

We lived next door to the woman who became my husband's girlfriend. I guess I always thought - if he ever did cheat - it would be a fairly cliche place that he'd meet the OW, like the gym, but I guess next door was even more cliche.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 18:35     Subject: Re:Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Anonymous wrote:OP again. Now that the holidays are over, anyone care to respond?


Nope.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2016 18:30     Subject: Re:Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
OP again. Now that the holidays are over, anyone care to respond?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 08:30     Subject: Re:Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
They are alone on the holidays.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 00:47     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
What's going on lately? End of the year blues? Seems like there's a lot MORE affair talk on DCUM
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 00:40     Subject: Where did you meet the OW? How did the affair start?
Where did you meet? Did you initiate or did she? How soon after meeting?