Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 19:53     Subject: Being good in bed
Anonymous wrote:What's a starfish mentality ?


When a woman just lies on her back with zero enthusiasm.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 19:50     Subject: Being good in bed
What's a starfish mentality ?
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 19:50     Subject: Being good in bed
Please explain. What is "disgusting" PP?
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 19:44     Subject: Being good in bed
Guy here. What's disgusting? Fellatio?
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 19:24     Subject: Being good in bed
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is what makes a woman good in bed:
Willingness
Being uninhibited
Not being too aggressive, letting the guy lead
Responding positively - but not being too loud or over the top
Physical attractiveness (duh)
Confidence
Being good at kissing and giving head (this can be learned)
In summary: Generally being hot - both in looks and attitude - but not to the point that it is intimidating.

Amirite??

Are you male or female? What is disgusting? Do you not like sex? I am a female and gave an honest answer. Based on my own personal research of course but still! My DH and previous relationships have always told me I was great in bed - these are the reasons why, at least this is what I have been told. My DH likes to talk a lot and loves to talk about sex. He is a pretty basic guy - definitely not "disgusting" he LOVES women and is nothing but respectful! But he enjoys sex and has always been very ... Communicative about what he likes. I really don't get what is "disgusting."
Any guys out there want to weigh in on this?



You are disgusting.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 18:58     Subject: Being good in bed
Attentive. Communicates. GGG.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 18:32     Subject: Being good in bed
I'm good in bed when the woman is really, really into me. After that, just being attentive and enthusiastic is enough (and those things are much easier if she's really, really into me.)

Agree with PP -- if she's going in with a starfish mentality, not much you can do. It would be better to just masturbate.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 18:09     Subject: Re:Being good in bed
I knOw I'm good in bed

1. I have good skills
2. I love all aspects of sex from kissing to blow jobs to actual penetration
3. I'm confident.
4. I'm eager (see 2)
5. I'm up for almost anything because it's fun to try new things. I have a wide range of things I love to do intimately.
6. I can be flexible. Like dominant? Great. Like submissive? Got it

I think my love for sex is what ultimately makes me good in bed. I really do love getting someone off so I work to make it happen.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 18:00     Subject: Being good in bed
Anonymous wrote:This is what makes a woman good in bed:
Willingness
Being uninhibited
Not being too aggressive, letting the guy lead
Responding positively - but not being too loud or over the top
Physical attractiveness (duh)
Confidence
Being good at kissing and giving head (this can be learned)
In summary: Generally being hot - both in looks and attitude - but not to the point that it is intimidating.

Amirite??




You are disgusting.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 17:42     Subject: Being good in bed
This is what makes a woman good in bed:
Willingness
Being uninhibited
Not being too aggressive, letting the guy lead
Responding positively - but not being too loud or over the top
Physical attractiveness (duh)
Confidence
Being good at kissing and giving head (this can be learned)
In summary: Generally being hot - both in looks and attitude - but not to the point that it is intimidating.

Amirite??


Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 17:38     Subject: Being good in bed
Being good in bed is simple as far as I'm concerned. You both need to be into it, you both need to be enthusiastic and you both need to be energetic and unabashed. Anything else is a passion killer.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 17:18     Subject: Being good in bed
As a guy I can tell you this...I'm sure some of my past women would consider me bad in bed, and some good. I think, at least in my case, it comes down to how engaged and enthusiastic the female is. When a woman goes all starfish with a "it's your job to please me" attitude, ima gonna fail.

Bad sex isn't always the guy's fault.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 16:51     Subject: Being good in bed
I think there is the perception that men are easier to please sexually, such that there is less technique required to get them off. Also the misperception that men don't care who they're having sex with, anyone will do. I have met some men like that, but they were not what I'd consider marriage material, for that and other reasons. Most men are not actually indiscriminately sexual.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 16:50     Subject: Being good in bed
Anonymous wrote:Try to keep it clean so this can stay in the non-explicit. It's seem there is an expectation that men should be good in bed. It seems to come up a lot when talking about husbands(divorce, no sex, would you remarry your spouse again, etc). There does not seem to be this concern for women. How many of you think you are good in bed and what constitutes being good bed?


Enthusiastic, loud, in decent shape but not perfect, wants to please me!
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2015 16:46     Subject: Being good in bed
Try to keep it clean so this can stay in the non-explicit. It's seem there is an expectation that men should be good in bed. It seems to come up a lot when talking about husbands(divorce, no sex, would you remarry your spouse again, etc). There does not seem to be this concern for women. How many of you think you are good in bed and what constitutes being good bed?