Depends on the friend. With some, our relationship has dwindled to just, "Cute! Congrats to Jillian!" on a FB post about their child's accomplishment. With others, if we go a week without talking one will text "I miss your face" and we'll catch up.

I have a standing laundry FaceTime date with one friend - we FT while folding laundry one evening a week for an hour or so.

Talk to my bff almost daily. see her every few weeks.

I see one of my best friends 1-2x a week. She lives nearby and our children are similar ages.

I see another probably once a month and we text or email a few times in between.

I see another only several times a year but we text multiple times a day.

My 3 best friends I have probably a 30-1hr conversation with each week. Might be a phone call, if it's a visit it's often a bit longer than that. I have probably a dozen friends I talk to in length maybe 2-3 times a year - but if something big happens, a death of something, we are on the phone to each other immediately.

How often do you talk to your friends? How often do you text? How often do you see each other? I am fine with seeing even what I consider my really good friends once a month or every other month or longer. Sometimes we text sometimes not. But I am starting to feel this is not enough. Is this way out of line? Don't beat me up here, but what is normal or usual? thanks!