Anonymous wrote:Hell no.

Lol

Anonymous wrote:NO. Not in this lifetime. She had her chance.

Don't listen to the cheaters here. They have no morals.

Agree

Hell no.

Anonymous wrote:I'd be pissed. Is he going to respond now? What was his excuse for considering it?

Yes, he is going to tell her no.
He thought maybe business could benefit...

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.

How is that insecure? I would never ever considering doing such a thing and am shocked he even thought about this.

So you're mad your husband doesn't think exactly like you.

Please freak out on him and then come back in 2 years scratching your head why you are divorced.

Don't try to control your husband. Ask him what he wants to do and trust him.

NO. Not in this lifetime. She had her chance.

Don't listen to the cheaters here. They have no morals.

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you're angry at your husband, and insecure in your relationship. Be happy he's passing on getting "business" from her and move on.

LOL, of course I am angry! I am.
I dont think I am insecure though. I cant imagine emailing another woman's husband and asking him out to dinner!!

I'd be pissed. Is he going to respond now? What was his excuse for considering it?

Oh and I'd probably tell him to go for it, but that's just me.

Anonymous wrote:Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.

How is that insecure? I would never ever considering doing such a thing and am shocked he even thought about this.

It sounds like you're angry at your husband, and insecure in your relationship. Be happy he's passing on getting "business" from her and move on.

Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.

Yeah. I wouldn't like it. I feel like it's, at the minimum, evidence of unresolved feelings/emotion between them. I wouldn't be happy that my DH considered it.

I think you have every right to be upset.

Before I met dh, he had a fiance. Soon after they broke up, we got together. We have been married for 3 years and have a newborn and a two year old. We have been together for 5 years.

He tells me his ex called emailed him that she is in town in a few weeks. She would like to see him over dinner to potentially discuss doing business. They are in a similar industry.

WTF???
She knows he is married with kids.
He has not replied. He told me about it. He wanted to see how I felt about it.
I am not happy that he is even considering it. He said he will tell her no.

The business thing is BS, I am sure. It is an excuse. Plus, even if true, my dh is an idiot for considering having business dealings with her, (he works for a family owned business). The whole thing is inappropriate.
Yes, I am glad he was open about it but I think he is a little dumb.

How would you feel and or react?
I am interested in hearing from both men and women.