Anonymous
10/18/2015 07:49
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Anonymous wrote:These friends may be your true soulmates, more so than your husbands. The only way to tell is to engage in intimacies.
ah the proverbial soulmate poster, who will be burning in hell (sounds good the AM, actually) for encouraging so many to stray.
Anonymous
10/18/2015 07:36
Subject: Re:blindsided - attracted to new female friend
At the end of the day cheating is cheating. Have some decency and end your relationship with your husband now. You owe him the possibility of being with a partner who appreciates him. Don't string string him along while you are searching for the 'true authentic' you. That is gutless.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 18:31
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Anonymous wrote:It's beside the point, because you're married. It's just like any crush we get in done in who is not our spouse.
+1 I'm a single lesbian I don't date people who are married. I would be flattered if a single straight girl was interested, but appalled if a married person asked me to be part of her affair.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 18:14
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Anonymous wrote:I have many gay friends, and never have been attracted to any of them. became friends with a woman who is a friend of a friend. she is a lesbian. from the moment we met we clicked and work in the same building so we see each other for lunch at least 1-2x per week. about 2-3 months after meeting her I realized I have feelings for her, want to see her whenever I can, want to kiss her. I don't think she is onto me, I am good at playing it cool. I am married and otherwise "straight." Any advice.
Tell your husband you want to have sex with other women and suggest he dobthe same thing
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:55
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Would you say the same thing if OP was a man?
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:54
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
^^typo: Meant it's like any crush we get on someone who is not our spouse.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:53
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
It's beside the point, because you're married. It's just like any crush we get in done in who is not our spouse.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:40
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow. Way to deny your true self.
NP: how? Bisexuality is real. Think Chirlane McCray, Anna Paquin, Cynthia Nixon, etc.
Way to discover your true self, OP, there are many of us.
I assume OP is bisexual. She doesn't. That's my point.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:34
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
This is so hot.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:15
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Anonymous wrote:Wow. Way to deny your true self.
NP: how? Bisexuality is real. Think Chirlane McCray, Anna Paquin, Cynthia Nixon, etc.
Way to discover your true self, OP, there are many of us.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:14
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
This is how most women discover they're gay -- you know that, right?
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:11
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
These friends may be your true soulmates, more so than your husbands. The only way to tell is to engage in intimacies.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 17:06
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
Wow. Way to deny your true self.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 16:51
Subject: Re:blindsided - attracted to new female friend
No advice OP, other than I am in a similar boat. I am very attracted to one of my closest friends and have been for over 2 years now. We are both married and we are both straight--although I am questioning this overwhelming attraction to her. I also am dying to kiss her, but I would never attempt anything, the friendship is more important. I keep hoping it will just go away. Thankfully (or not) she is moving within the next year.
Anonymous
10/17/2015 16:46
Subject: blindsided - attracted to new female friend
I have many gay friends, and never have been attracted to any of them. became friends with a woman who is a friend of a friend. she is a lesbian. from the moment we met we clicked and work in the same building so we see each other for lunch at least 1-2x per week. about 2-3 months after meeting her I realized I have feelings for her, want to see her whenever I can, want to kiss her. I don't think she is onto me, I am good at playing it cool. I am married and otherwise "straight." Any advice.