Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:42     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends what you consider 'poor.' How much does he make?


He is 26 years old and makes 65K.


What? That's good money at that age.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:41     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends what you consider 'poor.' How much does he make?


He is 26 years old and makes 65K.


That's not poor, FFS.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:41     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends what you consider 'poor.' How much does he make?


He is 26 years old and makes 65K.


How old are you and how much do you make?
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:38     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

I did and now he's rich as hell, so you never know.
He was a public school teacher (maybe making $40k in the 90's?) and got into corporate training and found out he was very, very good at it.
Worked his way up to a director position of a Fortune 500 company.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:31     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends what you consider 'poor.' How much does he make?


He is 26 years old and makes 65K.


Oh hell no!
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:30     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Anonymous wrote:Depends what you consider 'poor.' How much does he make?


He is 26 years old and makes 65K.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:12     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Do it. Your relationship will become stronger, and have more lasting memories, if you struggle and grow together.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:12     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Nope

You will forever be struggling then add kids to the mix and you'd want to pull your hair out.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:09     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Ho old is he and does he have a career? Are we talking teacher or waiter?
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:09     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Depends what you consider 'poor.' How much does he make?
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:06     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

No. Cut and run.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:03     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Uhhh you don't sound very bright either. No if you have plans to be a sahm.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 09:01     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Life has a funny way of giving and taking. Poor today can equal rich tomorrow. And rich today can equal poor tomorrow.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 08:59     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

Loving and kind goes a long way -

Does he have any potential? Aspiration? My BF was quite broke when I met him but since [i married him] he's gone through years more university and now we're going very well - both happy where we're at.

It was in the sciences so no student loans = very important (to me).

But previously I had a BF who seemed bright but had skads of student loans and that was a huge turn off.

Good luck -
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2015 08:52     Subject: Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

He's loving and kind but doesn't make much money.