Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And most classy last minute guests won't expect you to go out of your way. Pasta and salad.
But he's close family. I'm classy as hell (or not, whatever) but when I'm at my SIL's and brother's house, well, they have said "make yourself at home" so many times that I totally would feel free to open the fridge after dinner and ask "Can I have one of your yogurts?" if I were still hungry. When you're close, you often dispense with formalities. If I were at a friend's or colleague's house, I'd just go home hungry and eat a snack at home.