Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 23:14     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Someone who didn't care about watching sports on TV. Playing sports, fine, sitting around all day watching sports, no.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:55     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My deal breakers
Must be very sensitive/ empathetic
Doesn't look at other women in public
Not into tv or porn
Loves children/ ok with me being a sahm
Didn't have a lot of gfs before me
Not into Facebook
Not materialistic
Ok with buying organic food
Likes to volunteer
This is all I can think of at the moment. Btw, I am married to an amazing, amazing guy so happy I stuck to my deal breaker list. I got married young and am from a conservative religious background. Some friends told me my list was crazy. I thought it would be fun to hear from other women? What were your deal breakers? Especially the unusual ones?



No porn? You just eliminated the entire male population


I used to think like this - but I think it was a phase. I grew out of it and now I don't care for it at all. I really think my husband doesn't watch porn though. I know it sounds crazy but the guy is like a saint.


Yep. There are definitely guys out there who don't watch it.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:52     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My deal breakers
Must be very sensitive/ empathetic
Doesn't look at other women in public
Not into tv or porn
Loves children/ ok with me being a sahm
Didn't have a lot of gfs before me
Not into Facebook
Not materialistic
Ok with buying organic food
Likes to volunteer
This is all I can think of at the moment. Btw, I am married to an amazing, amazing guy so happy I stuck to my deal breaker list. I got married young and am from a conservative religious background. Some friends told me my list was crazy. I thought it would be fun to hear from other women? What were your deal breakers? Especially the unusual ones?



No porn? You just eliminated the entire male population


I used to think like this - but I think it was a phase. I grew out of it and now I don't care for it at all. I really think my husband doesn't watch porn though. I know it sounds crazy but the guy is like a saint.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:46     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Anonymous wrote:My deal breakers
Must be very sensitive/ empathetic
Doesn't look at other women in public
Not into tv or porn
Loves children/ ok with me being a sahm
Didn't have a lot of gfs before me
Not into Facebook
Not materialistic
Ok with buying organic food
Likes to volunteer
This is all I can think of at the moment. Btw, I am married to an amazing, amazing guy so happy I stuck to my deal breaker list. I got married young and am from a conservative religious background. Some friends told me my list was crazy. I thought it would be fun to hear from other women? What were your deal breakers? Especially the unusual ones?



No porn? You just eliminated the entire male population
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:38     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Anonymous wrote:My DH has all those qualities you mentioned except loves kids and not into tv. But that's ok, I'm not really a kid person, and I love tv, too. And he is not religious at all, and facebook didn't exist back then.

I wanted a DH who was handy, both around the house and in bed,too



lucky lady
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:38     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Condescension.

Making fun of traditionally female things.

Trying to order for me or "take control"
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:38     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Had to be born before the bicentennial
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:35     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Guys that are really into football or make fun of The Real Housewives.

Being too aggressively middle American boring hetero is a sure way to turn me off..
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:29     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
I wanted someone sensitive, kind and not into status and weath. Also someone who I knew would be a good dad.

I got all of these things. Of course, I also got someone who can be a tad anxious and isn't too much of go getter career-wise. All told, however, I'm happy with the choice. DH is a gem of a man in the ways that matter most to me.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:27     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Your friends are right.

You crazy.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:26     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
My DH has all those qualities you mentioned except loves kids and not into tv. But that's ok, I'm not really a kid person, and I love tv, too. And he is not religious at all, and facebook didn't exist back then.

I wanted a DH who was handy, both around the house and in bed,too


Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:25     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?

I wanted slim, cute and intellectually brilliant.

I got it, with a free sprinkling of Asperger's, and then an Aspie son into the bargain (who is no fool either).

Be careful what you wish for.

Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:22     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Being humble, and not the sort to #blessedbrag. Not too self-involved or demanding. Not delusional.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:21     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
Egads.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2015 22:19     Subject: Ladies what were deal breakers for marriage that may seem crazy but you had anyway?
My deal breakers
Must be very sensitive/ empathetic
Doesn't look at other women in public
Not into tv or porn
Loves children/ ok with me being a sahm
Didn't have a lot of gfs before me
Not into Facebook
Not materialistic
Ok with buying organic food
Likes to volunteer
This is all I can think of at the moment. Btw, I am married to an amazing, amazing guy so happy I stuck to my deal breaker list. I got married young and am from a conservative religious background. Some friends told me my list was crazy. I thought it would be fun to hear from other women? What were your deal breakers? Especially the unusual ones?