Anonymous
09/11/2015 00:09
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
I wouldn't give a shit but I would want my DH to agree to let me step out of the marriage too. The fact is he isn't good in bed, has let himself get out of shape, and doesn't help with chores or childcare. The spark has gone and resentment has set in, ruining sex for me.
So if he would want to sleep with others, then I would just want the same privilege, cause there are plenty of hot guys out there with whom I would feel a spark.
So if he would want to sleep with others, then I would just want the same privilege, cause there are plenty of hot guys out there with whom I would feel a spark.
Anonymous
09/11/2015 00:03
Subject: Re:So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
divorce. genital herpes is for life.
Anonymous
09/11/2015 00:00
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
Anonymous
09/10/2015 23:55
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
Anonymous wrote:Due to health or low libido, you can't give your spouse the sex they want/need. The marriage, for the most part, is good and loving. It's not like you have low libido because you are mad at them or have unresolved issues. So you decide to let them go outside ot ehe marriage to have sex. What would you prefer? Random people from Craigslist, AM or AdultFriendFinder (with a condom, of course) OR a prostitute OR a steady sex partner? Are there any rules you would set up (like no contact other than setting up sex dates)? Would you want to know when he/she was seeing the partner?
lube and wine is a much better option
Anonymous
09/10/2015 23:52
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
Anonymous wrote:But in this (made up scenario), you can't because of health issues. This is not a, we want to try an open marriage or how does swinging work, scenario. It's, do to circumstances beyond our control, one partner can have sex outside of the marriage. Would you want it to be with someone they had a relationship with or a random stranger/prostitute?
Prostitute
Anonymous
09/10/2015 22:17
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
I would want it to be like "Sister Wives", TLC reality show.
Anonymous
09/10/2015 22:02
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
But in this (made up scenario), you can't because of health issues. This is not a, we want to try an open marriage or how does swinging work, scenario. It's, do to circumstances beyond our control, one partner can have sex outside of the marriage. Would you want it to be with someone they had a relationship with or a random stranger/prostitute?
Anonymous
09/10/2015 21:57
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
We have full disclosure. If you are playing with someone, the partner should know about it. I prefer details, she doesn't. In fact, she assumes if I am going out with someone, there is likely to be sex involved.Anonymous wrote:Due to health or low libido, you can't give your spouse the sex they want/need. The marriage, for the most part, is good and loving. It's not like you have low libido because you are mad at them or have unresolved issues. So you decide to let them go outside ot ehe marriage to have sex. What would you prefer? Random people from Craigslist, AM or AdultFriendFinder (with a condom, of course) OR a prostitute OR a steady sex partner? Are there any rules you would set up (like no contact other than setting up sex dates)? Would you want to know when he/she was seeing the partner?
You should keep in mind that most people don't have on-going sex. Most partners are a time or two with an occasional triste going on for a few months. That's normal. Few people click sexually for the long term. You might also be surprised to find out that the presence of outside sexual partners tends to increase the libidio in the non-participating partners.
Anonymous
09/10/2015 21:35
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
Not a real scenario, just playing the What If game.
Anonymous
09/10/2015 21:27
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
Doomed.
Anonymous
09/10/2015 21:10
Subject: So you've decided to let your spouse go outside of the marriage...
Due to health or low libido, you can't give your spouse the sex they want/need. The marriage, for the most part, is good and loving. It's not like you have low libido because you are mad at them or have unresolved issues. So you decide to let them go outside ot ehe marriage to have sex. What would you prefer? Random people from Craigslist, AM or AdultFriendFinder (with a condom, of course) OR a prostitute OR a steady sex partner? Are there any rules you would set up (like no contact other than setting up sex dates)? Would you want to know when he/she was seeing the partner?