Anonymous wrote:So they are having an affair. There I said it for you. Figure it out

OP here. Not at all.

Anonymous wrote:You're being ridiculous. He likely regrets not meeting up with her when he was close by. Hence the trip now.

Poor guy, this is a lose lose situation for him. Although given your posts, he's likely used to it.

OP here. How does he regret it? He had the opportunity was lazy then not wanting to drive. So a month later he goes back for her?

You're being ridiculous. He likely regrets not meeting up with her when he was close by. Hence the trip now.

Poor guy, this is a lose lose situation for him. Although given your posts, he's likely used to it.

So they are having an affair. There I said it for you. Figure it out

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you go with him?

OP here. Because i do not like the female friend and see no reason in why we need to visit her.

So did try to make this a couple trip, you declined and he decided to go any way?

OP here. No he didnt decide to go anyway. He is planning a trip on his own to go. He could have went when we were just down there

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you go with him?

OP here. Because i do not like the female friend and see no reason in why we need to visit her.

It doesn't matter if you like her. She is hid friend. If you don't want yo go, then he goes alone. Are you always this selfish and self-absorbed. Everything cannot always be about what you want.

OP here. He had an opportunity to visit. He decided not to go. I even said they can each drive one hour each way and we can meet at a restaurant. He said no but is now planning to go back down there again to visit. It would still be a two hour drive so wtf, yes im pissed

Go with him and be gracious. Or stay home and be quiet.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you go with him?

OP here. Because i do not like the female friend and see no reason in why we need to visit her.

So did try to make this a couple trip, you declined and he decided to go any way?

Anonymous wrote:I don't know. If they were really good friends growing up and she is married and has a child I don't think I'd have a problem with it. Do you trust your DH?

OP here. I only met her twice so cant be really good friends... She just recently moved. Nothing sexual would happen im quite sure. But my husband and our family were just down there on vacation. Would have been a two hour drive for him to see them. I told him to go. He said no, too far. Yet now is planning to go back down there specifically to visit her.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you go with him?

OP here. Because i do not like the female friend and see no reason in why we need to visit her.

It doesn't matter if you like her. She is hid friend. If you don't want yo go, then he goes alone. Are you always this selfish and self-absorbed. Everything cannot always be about what you want.

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you go with him?

OP here. Because i do not like the female friend and see no reason in why we need to visit her.

I don't know. If they were really good friends growing up and she is married and has a child I don't think I'd have a problem with it. Do you trust your DH?

Why don't you go with him?

OK... Exactly why are you upset again?

Husband wants to visit a female friend, with whom he grew up with as friends, in another state. Im not ok with this. I told him this. I met the female twice and both times, she was very cold to me and although not rude to me (she didnt say a word to me to even be rude), she was rude to others. I dont want to go with him to visit her and her husband and child. He still wants to go. Im upset. I expressed this. He doesnt understand why im upset as they grew up together. Big deal... Its still a female friend you are visiting in another state. Am i overreacting?