Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:19
Subject: Re:Husband
he admitted to tricking you? was he putting holes in the condom?
this is a level of betrayal so huge that I could never, ever recover. Much less parent with this man. You're not in the same place physically, he doesn't have a job (and if he's in the humanities, good luck there), you are barely making ends meet now AND YOU MADE IT CLEAR YOU WEREN'T READY FOR A BABY.
Honestly, I know this is really painful, but your husband just showed you his true colors: that his desires are more important than anything. He's fucked with you, your life, your body and irresponsibly created a child that you did not want.
this is a level of betrayal so huge that I could never, ever recover. Much less parent with this man. You're not in the same place physically, he doesn't have a job (and if he's in the humanities, good luck there), you are barely making ends meet now AND YOU MADE IT CLEAR YOU WEREN'T READY FOR A BABY.
Honestly, I know this is really painful, but your husband just showed you his true colors: that his desires are more important than anything. He's fucked with you, your life, your body and irresponsibly created a child that you did not want.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:16
Subject: Husband
This is such a troll post. So all these months you've been having sex the room has been SO DARK that you couldn't possibly tell that your DH wasn't wearing a condom? And the whole financial struggle/potential unemployment? I get why you added that but it's overboard.
A better idea would be have been telling us that he messed with your bc pills.
Better luck next time, OP.
A better idea would be have been telling us that he messed with your bc pills.
Better luck next time, OP.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:13
Subject: Husvand
Anonymous wrote:Seems like a fake post,
Definitely not a fake post. Am on a train right now so hard to type.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:08
Subject: Re:Husvand
i guess since she says she passed out after sex, the husband could have "cleaned her up" where she woke up and thought things were normal.
story sounds dumb anyway.
story sounds dumb anyway.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:07
Subject: Husvand
Anonymous wrote:Tha doesn't make sense. You can tell the difference between a finding and no condom for a variety of reasons. I really don't believe he could have tricked you. Women have an easier time with this sort of deception because our birth control isn't detectable (pill, etc).
If this is for real and not a troll, this is grounds for divorce.
^^ meant: the difference between a condom and no condom.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:06
Subject: Husvand
Seems like a fake post,
Anonymous
07/14/2015 12:05
Subject: Husvand
Tha doesn't make sense. You can tell the difference between a finding and no condom for a variety of reasons. I really don't believe he could have tricked you. Women have an easier time with this sort of deception because our birth control isn't detectable (pill, etc).
If this is for real and not a troll, this is grounds for divorce.
If this is for real and not a troll, this is grounds for divorce.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:59
Subject: Re:Husvand
why couldnt you tell that he came in you after you had sex? wet spot? semen coming out of you? none of this happened?
and to be tricked into having a baby is a big no no.
and to be tricked into having a baby is a big no no.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:49
Subject: Husvand
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am 27 and work away from my husband Mon-Thurs. He's in the last year of his PhD in a small college town . I have to stay in a bigger city Mon-Thursday to work. I'm always exhausted. On top of that, my employer may be going under and our resources barely stretch as it is.
My husband is desperate for a baby kids and has been after me to have a baby I have told him I'm not ready .
So fast forward to 4 weeks ago.
We have sex and we usually use condoms. ALWAYS. And he knows that so he goes the closet to get a condom. I think he has everything together, including the and condom. He turns off the light we have sex and then I pass out.
Needless to say I'm pregnant after the one time!! My husband said he's been tricking me for months!!
I don't understand. How did he trick you?
I'm going to assume she assumed he was wearing a rubber when he wasn't. For whatever reason she could not tell, even after he ejaculated in her.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:47
Subject: Husvand
Anonymous wrote:I am 27 and work away from my husband Mon-Thurs. He's in the last year of his PhD in a small college town . I have to stay in a bigger city Mon-Thursday to work. I'm always exhausted. On top of that, my employer may be going under and our resources barely stretch as it is.
My husband is desperate for a baby kids and has been after me to have a baby I have told him I'm not ready .
So fast forward to 4 weeks ago.
We have sex and we usually use condoms. ALWAYS. And he knows that so he goes the closet to get a condom. I think he has everything together, including the and condom. He turns off the light we have sex and then I pass out.
Needless to say I'm pregnant after the one time!! My husband said he's been tricking me for months!!
I don't understand. How did he trick you?
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:36
Subject: Husvand
Abortion. And then divorce him.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:32
Subject: Re:Husvand
Anonymous wrote:I can't say for sure what I would do in that situation, but my first impulse is abortion, then divorce. That is a huge, huge violation.
That would be my first impulse too. That level of trickery is disgusting, no way I'd want to co-parent with a man like that.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:15
Subject: Re:Husvand
I can't say for sure what I would do in that situation, but my first impulse is abortion, then divorce. That is a huge, huge violation.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:14
Subject: Husvand
I am a guy and I would divorce him, not cool.
Anonymous
07/14/2015 11:10
Subject: Husband
I am 27 and work away from my husband Mon-Thurs. He's in the last year of his PhD in a small college town . I have to stay in a bigger city Mon-Thursday to work. I'm always exhausted. On top of that, my employer may be going under and our resources barely stretch as it is.
My husband is desperate for a baby kids and has been after me to have a baby I have told him I'm not ready .
So fast forward to 4 weeks ago.
We have sex and we usually use condoms. ALWAYS. And he knows that so he goes the closet to get a condom. I think he has everything together, including the and condom. He turns off the light we have sex and then I pass out.
Needless to say I'm pregnant after the one time!! My husband said he's been tricking me for months!!
My husband is desperate for a baby kids and has been after me to have a baby I have told him I'm not ready .
So fast forward to 4 weeks ago.
We have sex and we usually use condoms. ALWAYS. And he knows that so he goes the closet to get a condom. I think he has everything together, including the and condom. He turns off the light we have sex and then I pass out.
Needless to say I'm pregnant after the one time!! My husband said he's been tricking me for months!!