Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 19:39     Subject: Re:Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Did he hide it or did he clean his house and put your stuff away? Either way this seems like a waste of time and brainspace.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 19:09     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Because they know his girlfriend?


(sorry, bad joke)
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 19:09     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Ask him, OP. Not in a critical, angry way. Just be open about what you're thinking. It will set a good precedent for healthy communication.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 19:08     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Yeah, just ask. This isn't a big deal. Unless you think his motivation to hide stuff was unrelated to his parents visit.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:52     Subject: Re:Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Anonymous wrote:I have an awesome idea -- try being a normal fucking adult and asking your boyfriend what his motivations were, rather than skulking behind his back on a message board! Jesus, you sound like such a fucking child OP.


Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:47     Subject: Re:Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Anonymous wrote:I have an awesome idea -- try being a normal fucking adult and asking your boyfriend what his motivations were, rather than skulking behind his back on a message board! Jesus, you sound like such a fucking child OP.


Whoa, why so hostile? But yes, ask him. It will be enlightening.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:44     Subject: Re:Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Anonymous wrote:I have an awesome idea -- try being a normal fucking adult and asking your boyfriend what his motivations were, rather than skulking behind his back on a message board! Jesus, you sound like such a fucking child OP.


OMG.

NP here. Calm the fuck down, dude. Seriously.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:38     Subject: Re:Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
I have an awesome idea -- try being a normal fucking adult and asking your boyfriend what his motivations were, rather than skulking behind his back on a message board! Jesus, you sound like such a fucking child OP.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:38     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because he doesn't want his parents to know you sleep over on a regular basis. They may be very old school. Let it go.


They knew he lived with his college girlfriend.


And maybe they gave him grief about it and he doesn't want to deal with that again. They're *his* parents. Let it go.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:36     Subject: Re:Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
How long have you been dating?
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:35     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
^^ add me to the lists of PP's who agree
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:34     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Anonymous wrote:Because he doesn't want his parents to know you sleep over on a regular basis. They may be very old school. Let it go.


They knew he lived with his college girlfriend.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:34     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
^ agree
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:33     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
Because he doesn't want his parents to know you sleep over on a regular basis. They may be very old school. Let it go.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2015 18:32     Subject: Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
My bfs parents were about to visit to drop off his new dining table. I am over at his apt now and noticed that he's moved around my stuff so that my makeup and shoes are hidden in his room or in the closet under his sink. They know I exist and that we're serious. I don't get why he'd do this.