Anonymous wrote:If you liked him, why not send him a sexy text?

No, don't do this, unless you want to be a booty call and nothing else

If you liked him, why not send him a sexy text?

I'm just one guy, but when I was dating if someone had slept with me on a first date I'd probably dismiss them as a serious long term partner. Just being honest.

For full disclosure, no, I never slept with a woman on a first date nor had any one night stands. Just wasn't my thing.

he'll text you? ehh.

Definitely not. If he's a good guy and not some overly religious, hypocritical, or misogynistic/regressive loser, he wont think any less of you.

Never sleep with someone on the first date, as it's just a notch on his belt and he lost all respect for you. Pls post and let us know how this worked out for you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did he enjoy the date?

Did he enjoy the sex?

Did you?

I think he did have fun - the date and sex.

He did not spend the night because of an early morning work commitment.

Kissed goodbye and said he'd text me.

When was this? Last night?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did he enjoy the date?

Did he enjoy the sex?

Did you?

I think he did have fun - the date and sex.

He did not spend the night because of an early morning work commitment.

Kissed goodbye and said he'd text me.

Guy here- wait for him to text you. That's what he said he'd do. If he doesn't text in a couple days, send him a nonchalant text/email about getting together for a second date. Seriously, just treat it like it was NBD.

Ladies don't like sex?

Anonymous wrote:Slept with him on the first date. I hope he calls again or did sleeping together so quickly just screw up those chances?

Depends on your ages and life stages. The younger you both are the more likely you're just going to end up a notch on his bedpost.

Nice!

I'd wait to hear from him. After a few days, reach out. But just once.

Anonymous wrote:Did he enjoy the date?

Did he enjoy the sex?

Did you?

I think he did have fun - the date and sex.

He did not spend the night because of an early morning work commitment.

Kissed goodbye and said he'd text me.

Call him. If not for something serious, then for a good time. I slept with my now husband on the second date. Fuck dating rules

Did he enjoy the date?

Did he enjoy the sex?

Did you?

Slept with him on the first date. I hope he calls again or did sleeping together so quickly just screw up those chances?