Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 16:13     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

I got my nose pierced the day I turned 18. I had wanted it for ages and my parents wouldn't let me.

They let me get my belly button pierced when I was 16, though. I personally don't see why letting her pierce her belly button is any different. Especially if she does it when she turns 18 anyway.

FWIW, I had multiple piercings in my late teens/early 20s, and the only one I still have (I'm 32 now) is a small stud in my nostril. I take it out for work and it just looks like a freckle.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 16:09     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Great PJ O'Rourke quote in The Week:
"The weirder you're going to behave, the more normal you should look. It works in reverse, too. When I see a kid with three or four rings in his nose, I know there is absolutely nothing extraordinary about that person."
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:57     Subject: Re:Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Mine just DIYed it.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:28     Subject: Re:Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Its a phase that will pass. No.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:25     Subject: Re:Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

No. Do any of the women at the country club have nose rings? Or filled in nose ring holes? No. Does RBG have a nose ring? No.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:25     Subject: Re:Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

No, of course, I would not allow my minor daughter to put a hole in her nose.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:18     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Yuck, no.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:07     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Anonymous wrote:No. I had mine pierced and the spot will never go away. 20+ years ago I made the decision I still live with on my face forever.


This. My sister got one at 14 and hasn't had it in in over a decade and the hole is still visible. I got my belly button done the same summer and while equally as trashy of a look it left a much more discrete scar since its not on my face. I have kids and don't battle over "independent choices" but I'd protect the face when I can!
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:02     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

No. I had mine pierced and the spot will never go away. 20+ years ago I made the decision I still live with on my face forever.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:01     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

No. Belly button - yes. Nose will have to wait until you are out of my house.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 15:00     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

I probably would at 16/HS jr but not at 13.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 14:37     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Yes. I figure this is the sort of thing worth compromising on. I'd make the "yes" contingent on her demonstrating that she's responsible enough to care for it without infection, though.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 14:37     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Is she otherwise responsible? If so, I probably would let her.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 14:36     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

Nope not until she's 18.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2015 14:26     Subject: Would you let teen DD get her nose pierced?

DD wants to.

Personally, i think a small stud in the nose is unobtrusive and can be very pretty. I'm surprised at how open I am to the idea. I can't stand tattoos and things like eyebrow piercings, but this seems harmless to me.

I'm wondering how others feel. (I think I can guess ...)