Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My vote is yay!

Seriously, he needs to consult an MD.

Yay? That's cruel.

Yay in that I won't be badgered for sex all the time, yes. Not yay for his health, obviously. Just being honest.

Thats a really mean thing to say.

OP - have him go to the doc and get checked out. Something like 50% of men over 40 have ED - so most likely everything is going to be fine. If his doc prescribes the blue pill you'll be in for some of the best sex you've had in years.

What about the blue pill would make their sex now better than the sex they had before ED and without the blue pill?

Anonymous wrote:He should see a doctor, have a full physical etc. That doesn't sound normal.

To the PP whose BF died, I'm so sorry for your loss.

+1

He should see a doctor, have a full physical etc. That doesn't sound normal.

To the PP whose BF died, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My vote is yay!

Seriously, he needs to consult an MD.

Yay? That's cruel.

Yay in that I won't be badgered for sex all the time, yes. Not yay for his health, obviously. Just being honest.

Thats a really mean thing to say.

OP - have him go to the doc and get checked out. Something like 50% of men over 40 have ED - so most likely everything is going to be fine. If his doc prescribes the blue pill you'll be in for some of the best sex you've had in years.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My vote is yay!

Seriously, he needs to consult an MD.

Yay? That's cruel.

Yay in that I won't be badgered for sex all the time, yes. Not yay for his health, obviously. Just being honest.

Anonymous wrote:Have him get checked. My bf had a slight ED issue, not one we worried about much. He died a few months ago of a heart attack, but was seemingly healthy otherwise. Don't mean to scare you but I just wish he had thought about seeing a doctor.

How old was he?

I'm sorry for your loss.

Anonymous wrote:OP - he is otherwise 100% healthy - fit, exercise, no medication

He's not 100% healthy. He's fifty and is losing erections during sex.

It's one thing to have an anxiety issue preventing you from getting it up, but losing it during sex seems potentially serious.

He should see a doctor and make sure that he explains the issue so the doctor can recommend the right tests.

Anonymous wrote:My vote is yay!

Seriously, he needs to consult an MD.

Yay? That's cruel.

Have him get checked. My bf had a slight ED issue, not one we worried about much. He died a few months ago of a heart attack, but was seemingly healthy otherwise. Don't mean to scare you but I just wish he had thought about seeing a doctor.

OP here

He's been talking about his fear of turning 50 for years

OP - he is otherwise 100% healthy - fit, exercise, no medication

My vote is yay!

Seriously, he needs to consult an MD.

Is he overweight? Definitely get his heart checked. Arteries could be blocked.

My vote is doctor.

And go from there.

It works sometimes, doesn't work at all sometimes and he loses it during sometimes.

Psychological? Physical?

What's your vote?