Anonymous wrote:Thanks for responding. Though I'm sure well meaning, suggestions on spending more time at pools are a big turn off. Partner and I have zippy interest in spending more time some place neither of enjoy is a huge turn off. 5 lessons will achieve our goals of getting DC to put head in water, but now I'm more reluctant to pay for a class and maybe do it ourselves to avoid all the upselling.
If you find even being near a pool a "huge turn off" how will you teach him yourself?
Give him the 5 weeks of lessons and spend enough time at a public pool to help him feel comfortable. It's not supposed to turn you on.