Just passing this along to anyone who might be in the same boat. I bought the Wet Brush from Target the other day. It advertises itself as a pain free detangling hairbrush.
I am a FTM, and I went on a "Target Vacation" to buy a hairbrush bc I actually broke mine brushing my hair. My super-fine hair has been shedding post-partum, and tangling horribly as a result. It's been a vicious cycle where I actually dread showering and then brushing my hair bc it is so tangled and I lose hundreds of strands when I brush it, and I feel like I am tearing my hair out of my head. It got so bad that I stopped showering for a day or two at a time, then I felt really gross and bad about myself, and baby and I weren't even leaving the house.
Anyway, I saw this Wet Brush at Target, and I was so excited to try it, that I tried it in the parking lot - and it was awesome - it combed right through my knotted up hair - no pain. Now I'm back in the game! I don't dread the daily shower and comb through anymore.
So, that's how a $10 brush changed my life. I have really thin hair, so I cannot comment on how it will handle thick hair. I have a baby boy, but if I had daughters with long, tangled hair, I would absolutely get this. I also grabbed the Goody ouch-free brush but haven't tried it yet.
Happy brushing, hope this helps someone!