Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:25     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Anonymous wrote:What if you were asked last minute to host, not by your BIL but by your MIL...


I'd still do it. What is your objection, op?
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:23     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Yes
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:22     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Yes, I would... but I enjoy having guests.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:21     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Yes.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:19     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Anonymous wrote:What if you were asked last minute to host, not by your BIL but by your MIL...


I would still do it. Look, for whatever reason you don't want to. So tell whoever it is that asked you that you're not comfortable with it because you don't know them. done.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:17     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Fiance, yes, maybe one other, ok, but not a large group. I might invite them over for a meal or two.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:17     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
What if you were asked last minute to host, not by your BIL but by your MIL...
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:16     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
Wow. What you haven't written is coming through very clearly. Ouch. I bet you don't even think you are lonely in your big empty house.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:16     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
I simply can not imagine my BIL ever asking anything like this...so I can only answer hypothetically - No.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:15     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
I'd be okay with it, but I come from a very strong "hosting" background/culture. I might not if my kids were still little and had a bunch of sleep issues going on, but barring that, I certainly would do it.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:14     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
I would. Not sure what the big deal is.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:11     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?

3 empty bedrooms and 2 nights?
Yes, I would do that for my BIL. I really like him.

Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:10     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
I don't really understand...this is the woman your husband's brother will be marrying? A person who will soon be part of your family? Why would you *not* host her and her friends in your big house with three empty bedrooms?
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:10     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
I have kids so probably no. I need to know who is coming into our house.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2015 22:07     Subject: Would you host your BIL's guests?
If you had a big house with 3 empty bedrooms, would you host his fiancé and her bridal party for two nights especially if you barely knew BIL's fiancé? Would you be comfortable hosting the fiancé's friends as well especially if they were out of the country?