We're going to get curtains for all of the bedrooms soon, but we're not ready to get new doorknobs (most of them don't lock, so we will need new ones).

I don't know the first thing about decorating, so please tell me if the finish on the curtain rods and doorknobs needs to match? If so, what is a classic finish? I'm not going to want to change these out every few years because they look old-fashioned.

I was thinking of getting the dark brown (is that oil rubbed bronze? See how out-of-it I am wrt decorating?) curtain rods, but we'll probably get nickel doorknobs, although I can't guarantee it. Would it look weird for the finishes to not match?

God, I suck at this stuff. I wish it would come to be even a little easier.

TIA!