Most women the cheat on their H do it in their early 30's ... So you just a cliche.

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Anonymous wrote:You got attached then married too young. It is human nature that you wonder about other guys.

I'm a PP who agrees with this too. But still, that ship has sailed, so just try to keep yourself in check from here on out OP.

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Anonymous wrote:Not a big deal. Don't say anything and forget about it.

I wouldn't care if my husband did that or if it was done to him. I'm also 30, been with my husband 9 years.

Not a big deal. Don't say anything and forget about it.

I would hate myself for this.

Anonymous wrote:You got attached then married too young. It is human nature that you wonder about other guys.

I'm a PP who agrees with this too. But still, that ship has sailed, so just try to keep yourself in check from here on out OP.

You got attached then married too young. It is human nature that you wonder about other guys.

It's apparent liquor enables you to act slutty and disrespectful of your husband and friend. I suggest you stick to water and only go out with your husband.

A peck? No tongue? That's nothing. Just keep it to yourself and watch it so you don't really do something next time!

So were you drunk when you were putting on the lipstick and heels?

You wanted something to happen and a few drinks would help. Be a grown-up and accept responsibility for your actions. You think this is funny???

Grow up.

Define kiss. Was it a peck, a few seconds, make out session, something else?

It's a shot across the bow, op. No more going out and boozing it up without your DH. Don't tell him, and next time he's away, go to the movies.

It's not something I'd be confessing to my spouse (and frankly I wouldn't want my spouse to tell me), but I'd be watching my liquor in the future and not putting myself in a situation for it to happen again.

Don't go out drinking with your friend if you can't keep your act together. You are a train wreck waiting to happen.

My husband is out of town and last night I went out w an old college friend and for the first time in years, we, like, "went out". Heels, lipstick, etc. I was getting hit on by this guy, we were having all the laughs, and I decided to leave. And out of the blue, obviously fuels by drinks, I leaned over and kissed him on the mouth! And then promptly ran away and into a cab.

In the light of day, I'm half horrified and half sort of find it funny. But mostly horrified. What level of awful is this?

For what it's worth, I'm 30, w DH for eight years, married for four. It's v out of the blue for me, which is why I find it both baffling and funny and upsetting.