I know this dates me, but my ex used to get a little damp over Billy Dee Williams.
She always said that if he showed up at our door one evening, she was leaving with him.

I told her the same went for me and Jamie Lee Curtis.

Meanwhile, over on the "what's your type" thread the ladies are debating the merits of Idris Elba.

I've watched my wife get all short of breath over him too many times.

I watch superhero movies to ogle Chris hemsworth and Evans (and tell my husband so). He does not look like Thor and I don't think he feels threatened by him.

Another white girl who's married to a man who loves Beyonce. It's not a big deal, OP.

Some people really go deep in these celebrity crushes. Facebook/social media pages devoted to the crush. Blogs. Dirty blogs. Smutty fan fiction.

Be patient and understanding though. You may need to let hubby down easy:

Only 40 percent of celebs go on to marry their stalkers.

http://www.theonion.com/article/report-only-40-of-celebrities-end-up-marrying-thei-38099

How old are you OP? You seem very young.

I'm a straight female and I have a crush on Kate Upton. She's extremely sexy.

Be more confident, OP! This is not a real issue.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a white, pretty skinny/lanky type and my husband is unabashedly into ogling Beyonce any time she crosses his eye path. Never occurred to me to feel threatened by that. Don't look for trouble where none exists.

Oh so it's not a big deal?

why would it be?

I don't get it. I have many types of guys I find attractive. I find Shemar Moore incredibly sexy. DH is white and about 20 pounds overweight. Doesn't mean I don't also find him sexy and jump his bones whenever I can.

Seriously, we all are attracted to people who don't look like our spouses. Unless he's making comments to you that he's not attracted to you or that you need to change to look more like her, I would let this go before you make it into something.

Hell I find Kate Upton attractive and the only thing we've got in common are big boobs.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a white, pretty skinny/lanky type and my husband is unabashedly into ogling Beyonce any time she crosses his eye path. Never occurred to me to feel threatened by that. Don't look for trouble where none exists.

Oh so it's not a big deal?

Np here. No, it's not a big deal. I find myself ogling Kate Upton, and I'm a straight female! She has a body that attracts attention. Let it go.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last night my DH was ogling at the Kate Upton commercial. She's really attractive but looks nothing like me. She's tall and boobilicious and blonde and I'm petite and brunette.

Does he do things to indulge this crush on a daily basis? Does he take weekends away to watch her shows and perv out over her with his friends?

Try not to worry too much at this point.

Lol. No. He just likes this particular commercial. He's commented on it before.

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a white, pretty skinny/lanky type and my husband is unabashedly into ogling Beyonce any time she crosses his eye path. Never occurred to me to feel threatened by that. Don't look for trouble where none exists.

Oh so it's not a big deal?

Anonymous wrote:Last night my DH was ogling at the Kate Upton commercial. She's really attractive but looks nothing like me. She's tall and boobilicious and blonde and I'm petite and brunette.

Does he do things to indulge this crush on a daily basis? Does he take weekends away to watch her shows and perv out over her with his friends?

Try not to worry too much at this point.

Well, I'm a white, pretty skinny/lanky type and my husband is unabashedly into ogling Beyonce any time she crosses his eye path. Never occurred to me to feel threatened by that. Don't look for trouble where none exists.

Last night my DH was ogling at the Kate Upton commercial. She's really attractive but looks nothing like me. She's tall and boobilicious and blonde and I'm petite and brunette.