Anonymous wrote:
The real question for them will be, unfortunately, how long it takes them to realize that they are just another log on the fire to their employers, a consumable faceless quantity, easily used up, discarded, and replaced.
I'm the PP poster who is still in the game, but not a cynic. There's an element of lambs to slaughter that is the legal profession. People don't realize the wash out rate and honestly looking at the costs (I gasped when I learned what the COA was at my law school).
It's a rough field that is plenty interesting but you need to be constantly vigilant. People want you to fail. Not just opposing counsel. Your bosses, your co-workers, etc. If you can thread the needle, it's fun, interesting and dynamic field. But only for those who survive.
The real question for them will be, unfortunately, how long it takes them to realize that they are just another log on the fire to their employers, a consumable faceless quantity, easily used up, discarded, and replaced.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well I'm a first year associate so I guess I qualify as an eager puppy or something, but hell yes I love what I do. Litigation is very mentally satisfying. Yeah the hours are long, but who doesn't work long hours? No matter what profession you're in, people work hard. So I don't mind the long hours too much - I genuinely enjoy the challenge of my work.
And on a more shallow level, a lot about it satisfies my more egotistical side. I love the money I earn, the beautiful office I work in, and the great political connections that my firm has in Washington DC. This is a great place to start a career.
This was fun to read. Come back in a couple years . . . let's see your soul then (I also was an eager beaver as a first year biglaw guy, then my soul died)
NP here. The first year's response made me giggle also, but it echos other first years I hear in my office.
I think my soul started dying at the end of my first year, so enjoy the next couple of months![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well I'm a first year associate so I guess I qualify as an eager puppy or something, but hell yes I love what I do. Litigation is very mentally satisfying. Yeah the hours are long, but who doesn't work long hours? No matter what profession you're in, people work hard. So I don't mind the long hours too much - I genuinely enjoy the challenge of my work.
And on a more shallow level, a lot about it satisfies my more egotistical side. I love the money I earn, the beautiful office I work in, and the great political connections that my firm has in Washington DC. This is a great place to start a career.
This was fun to read. Come back in a couple years . . . let's see your soul then (I also was an eager beaver as a first year biglaw guy, then my soul died)
Anonymous wrote:Well I'm a first year associate so I guess I qualify as an eager puppy or something, but hell yes I love what I do. Litigation is very mentally satisfying. Yeah the hours are long, but who doesn't work long hours? No matter what profession you're in, people work hard. So I don't mind the long hours too much - I genuinely enjoy the challenge of my work.
And on a more shallow level, a lot about it satisfies my more egotistical side. I love the money I earn, the beautiful office I work in, and the great political connections that my firm has in Washington DC. This is a great place to start a career.
Anonymous wrote:It's a difficult field because the work while interesting is not enough to combat a profession that is hell bent on killing your humanity. Ostensibly, having gone to a tippy top law school and done well, you'll think you're set. But you're not.
I can give you a happily ever after. But it was the product of my absolute grit and determination not to end up professional road kill.
I was that woman who got the lukewarm review (where I was told I was an idiot and never would accomplish anything of merit) and somehow landed a federal clerkship in what felt like minutes before the ax came for me. I am that woman who somehow parlayed that federal clerkship into an AUSA position (in flyover country but seriously who cares. I loved every second of my AUSA life). I was that woman who went through the revolving door and spent a bit of time as a biglaw partner before realizing that the game was as awful as I remembered as a much younger woman. I am that woman who had a (3rd) baby and decided to chuck it and am happily working in house.
I have spent more than 17 years running from patch to patch, job to job. I am always job hunting. I will always be job hunting until I retire. It is exhausting but I enjoy practicing law and have found ways to stay one step ahead of an industry hell bent on destroying my humanity. I am a white collar migrant worker. I have worked on both coasts. In major and tiny cities. And I will go anywhere if the deal is right and it keeps me afloat. I will survive. And I will do it with integrity.
I’m a kind person. I’m a good mom and wife. I volunteer and teach ESL on Sundays morning. I have a nice home and am eeking out an existence. I love my job. Absolutely love the day to day of being an attorney. But the industry? It’s hard. Really hard. And you have to be tough and you have to have no scruples because no one cares one whit about ruining your life if it would get them an inch closer to whatever they define as success. Law is a ruthless profession and I say that as someone who ostensibly “won” out.