Anonymous
03/24/2015 05:38
Subject: Email response time
do you only have her work email?
Anonymous
03/24/2015 05:18
Subject: Email response time
Have you ever called her? Have you asked her out on a date? If not, she may be wondering why you just keep emailing her to say hi.
Anonymous
03/24/2015 05:17
Subject: Email response time
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I thought I'd get responses from you guys like stop being too sensitive, etc but, ok, at least I wasn't thinking too much in correlating response time and interest.
She took so long to reply twice but after I made a brief comment saying she's so slow in replying she actually responded quicker (2 days or even within the same day the last time). Perhaps it's just related to her workload. She did say she can be a bit delinquent in her not so urgent email replies (so I guess I'm not prioritized although we just met and there's no reason I should be)
Other than that, she's very pretty and nice and sometimes I feel like she might be interested but sometimes not.
Difficult to tell!!
Hmmm. You asked in your original post: "Do you think this means she just doesn't care?"
The resounding answer has been, yes, she just doesn't care.
You're still confused, finding it "difficult to tell" how she feels. Really? I sense a pattern in which you fail to read a situation appropriately. Please stop e-mailing this woman.
Anonymous
03/24/2015 05:12
Subject: Email response time
OP here. I thought I'd get responses from you guys like stop being too sensitive, etc but, ok, at least I wasn't thinking too much in correlating response time and interest.
She took so long to reply twice but after I made a brief comment saying she's so slow in replying she actually responded quicker (2 days or even within the same day the last time). Perhaps it's just related to her workload. She did say she can be a bit delinquent in her not so urgent email replies (so I guess I'm not prioritized although we just met and there's no reason I should be)
Other than that, she's very pretty and nice and sometimes I feel like she might be interested but sometimes not.
Difficult to tell!!
She took so long to reply twice but after I made a brief comment saying she's so slow in replying she actually responded quicker (2 days or even within the same day the last time). Perhaps it's just related to her workload. She did say she can be a bit delinquent in her not so urgent email replies (so I guess I'm not prioritized although we just met and there's no reason I should be)
Other than that, she's very pretty and nice and sometimes I feel like she might be interested but sometimes not.
Difficult to tell!!
Anonymous
03/23/2015 21:17
Subject: Email response time
She's just not that into you. Sorry.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 21:14
Subject: Email response time
As a Female, trust me...If I am into a guy + he shoots me an e-mail, I am in high heaven.
I think she is just being cordial w/you and my best advice for you would be to take a few steps back, let the ball be in her court for now and leave it up to her if she wants to pursue anything.
I think she is just being cordial w/you and my best advice for you would be to take a few steps back, let the ball be in her court for now and leave it up to her if she wants to pursue anything.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 19:38
Subject: Email response time
She is being nice, cordial by responding but is not romantically interested.
So sorry OP, but glad you realize this now and can move in a different direction
So sorry OP, but glad you realize this now and can move in a different direction
Anonymous
03/23/2015 19:36
Subject: Email response time
Was it just one email? Or is she consistently waiting several days to respond?
I can see someone waiting a few days to respond so they don't seem like they have no life. But just at the beginning. If she repeatedly takes that long then she's not interested.
I can see someone waiting a few days to respond so they don't seem like they have no life. But just at the beginning. If she repeatedly takes that long then she's not interested.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 17:12
Subject: Email response time
Dude, move on.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 15:26
Subject: Email response time
That is not the behavior of someone who is romantically interested. She probably likes you as a friend. Sorry, OP, it happens to everyone and there are other fish in the sea.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 14:55
Subject: Re:Email response time
I have a long distance relationship, and we text. Almost always within same business day, and certainly within 24 hours. But I've had others whom I was less interested in, and I took a couple days to respond. I wasn't trying to signal to them to get lost, just that I wasn't as interested.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 13:43
Subject: Email response time
Personally, for me this would mean that I'm completely uninterested and having a hard time figuring out how to say that (do you have friends in common or some other reason why she can't be blunt?).
Everyone is different in terms of how much responsibility they can handle - I'm pretty high-functioning, so the idea of going more than 24 hours without responding to an email is pretty unfalthomable, but I know other people function differently. But the question is: do you want to be with someone who can't manage to respond to an email within 24 hours? It doesn't sound like it, and that's perfectly reasonable.
Everyone is different in terms of how much responsibility they can handle - I'm pretty high-functioning, so the idea of going more than 24 hours without responding to an email is pretty unfalthomable, but I know other people function differently. But the question is: do you want to be with someone who can't manage to respond to an email within 24 hours? It doesn't sound like it, and that's perfectly reasonable.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 13:42
Subject: Email response time
Don't emial her at work. Can you text?
Anonymous
03/23/2015 13:40
Subject: Email response time
4 or 5 days is a really long response time imo. I dont think its a good sign. But maybe she just doesn't appreciate a personal email to her work account? You may want to ask if that bothers her and come up with an alternative.
Anonymous
03/23/2015 13:38
Subject: Email response time
for the ladies, do you think email response time indicate level of interest a woman has for the guy? A woman whom I like and recently met takes forever to reply to a simple email saying hi. She takes 4 to 5 days usually.I emailed to her work email so I am sure she checks every minute (outlook and bb) and from what i know she is busy but not THAT busy.
Do you think this means she just doesnt care? Or do you think this is unrelated to whether she is interested?
Do you think this means she just doesnt care? Or do you think this is unrelated to whether she is interested?