Anonymous wrote:Well-I am the rare woman that gets bulky INCREDIBLY easily.
I played soccer for years and had enormously muscular thighs---jeans were a nightmare to fit. Whenever I start concentrating on upper body--I get huge shoulders and popping guns. I get comments all of the time. In fact--my husband jokes that I should really 'go' with my body type and see how big I can get...prob. like a woman bodybuilder without even having to take steroids.
The saving grace is that as I age and lose body mass--I start to look less bulky while still have muscle.
So--yea--there are a few of us women that bulk up fast and quick due to genetics but we are in the minority. Thankfully- I gave birth to all sons because my husband was a bodybuilder in his early 20s.
.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lots of great advice on the Fitness and Exercise board at MyFitnessPal about getting stronger. If you are female, consider buying and reading The New Rules of Lifting for Women.
The quickest way to build strength is to lift heavy with low reps --- like 3 sets of 6 reps at big compound movements (bench, military press, squats). Note that before you can lift heavy, you need to learn proper form for each exercise. Lots of people think you just just weights around, but there is a lot to the form of each exercise. Get a book, watch YouTube videos, start with low weights to learn form, but know that lifting heavy is where you want to get to.
Pushups are great for you right now because if you can only do 8 reps, they are kind of like lifting heavy. As you get stronger, you may need to add variety (decline, one handed knee pushups, one handed pushups, plyo pushups, weighted pushups). Building muscle takes time. Also, be sure that you are eating enough and that you are getting enough protein.
Finally, if you are female, please don't worry about getting too bulky --- you will not accidentally get too bulky. Guys struggle mightily to add bulk, and that's with testosterone. A lot of your gains early on will be neurological (learning to use your muscles), so you will add strength with no added bulk.
are you me? Did I sleepwrite this?
This is the best advice in this thread, down to the book recommendation. That book has changed my life.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Pushups are a great measure of upper body strength. I use to only be able to do about 5 solid pushups and then worked myself up to 25. I did them every other night. I would do as many as I could with perfect form and then once I maxed out, I would drop to my knees and do the modified type (girl pushups) until maxed out. I did 3 sets of this. I think I got to 25 within 3-4 months.
OP here. This is similar to what I've been doing. I try to do them almost every night and when I can't stand doing regular ones I switch to the "girl" ones and do those until I can't do anymore. I can do about 8 non-stop, then I take a break and do the girl ones, then throw in a few regular ones again, switch, etc. I have also started taking a class which involves some kettle ball lifts and
Anonymous wrote:Lots of great advice on the Fitness and Exercise board at MyFitnessPal about getting stronger. If you are female, consider buying and reading The New Rules of Lifting for Women.
The quickest way to build strength is to lift heavy with low reps --- like 3 sets of 6 reps at big compound movements (bench, military press, squats). Note that before you can lift heavy, you need to learn proper form for each exercise. Lots of people think you just just weights around, but there is a lot to the form of each exercise. Get a book, watch YouTube videos, start with low weights to learn form, but know that lifting heavy is where you want to get to.
Pushups are great for you right now because if you can only do 8 reps, they are kind of like lifting heavy. As you get stronger, you may need to add variety (decline, one handed knee pushups, one handed pushups, plyo pushups, weighted pushups). Building muscle takes time. Also, be sure that you are eating enough and that you are getting enough protein.
Finally, if you are female, please don't worry about getting too bulky --- you will not accidentally get too bulky. Guys struggle mightily to add bulk, and that's with testosterone. A lot of your gains early on will be neurological (learning to use your muscles), so you will add strength with no added bulk.
Awesome, thanks! I will look into the book and watch some videos to try to get into lifting. It seems so intimidating right now, but maybe I can also meet with a trainer a time or two and get some pointers before I try on my own.
Anonymous wrote:Pushups are a great measure of upper body strength. I use to only be able to do about 5 solid pushups and then worked myself up to 25. I did them every other night. I would do as many as I could with perfect form and then once I maxed out, I would drop to my knees and do the modified type (girl pushups) until maxed out. I did 3 sets of this. I think I got to 25 within 3-4 months.
Anonymous wrote:Lots of great advice on the Fitness and Exercise board at MyFitnessPal about getting stronger. If you are female, consider buying and reading The New Rules of Lifting for Women.
The quickest way to build strength is to lift heavy with low reps --- like 3 sets of 6 reps at big compound movements (bench, military press, squats). Note that before you can lift heavy, you need to learn proper form for each exercise. Lots of people think you just just weights around, but there is a lot to the form of each exercise. Get a book, watch YouTube videos, start with low weights to learn form, but know that lifting heavy is where you want to get to.
Pushups are great for you right now because if you can only do 8 reps, they are kind of like lifting heavy. As you get stronger, you may need to add variety (decline, one handed knee pushups, one handed pushups, plyo pushups, weighted pushups). Building muscle takes time. Also, be sure that you are eating enough and that you are getting enough protein.
Finally, if you are female, please don't worry about getting too bulky --- you will not accidentally get too bulky. Guys struggle mightily to add bulk, and that's with testosterone. A lot of your gains early on will be neurological (learning to use your muscles), so you will add strength with no added bulk.
Anonymous wrote:Lots of great advice on the Fitness and Exercise board at MyFitnessPal about getting stronger. If you are female, consider buying and reading The New Rules of Lifting for Women.
The quickest way to build strength is to lift heavy with low reps --- like 3 sets of 6 reps at big compound movements (bench, military press, squats). Note that before you can lift heavy, you need to learn proper form for each exercise. Lots of people think you just just weights around, but there is a lot to the form of each exercise. Get a book, watch YouTube videos, start with low weights to learn form, but know that lifting heavy is where you want to get to.
Pushups are great for you right now because if you can only do 8 reps, they are kind of like lifting heavy. As you get stronger, you may need to add variety (decline, one handed knee pushups, one handed pushups, plyo pushups, weighted pushups). Building muscle takes time. Also, be sure that you are eating enough and that you are getting enough protein.
Finally, if you are female, please don't worry about getting too bulky --- you will not accidentally get too bulky. Guys struggle mightily to add bulk, and that's with testosterone. A lot of your gains early on will be neurological (learning to use your muscles), so you will add strength with no added bulk.