Be open to ideas that had never crossed your mind
After you've considered the new ideas, if you have reservations, bring them up
If you don't like something and there's no way you're changing your mind, save time and say so
If something is too expensive, too fragile, whatever, tell her
If the budget is starting to be a problem, ask for suggestions, and ask it would help if you did some of the looking
Have fun! It is really nice to have a pretty room, especially if other parts of the house are coated in a thin layer of Legos.